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Hello everybody! πββοΈFor me:This is a new forum about age!! And i have three questions to start it, but everybody can also post questions of course!!
What is the best age:βΊοΈ To get a baby? πΆ
βΊοΈ To be allowed to get your driving licence for a car? π
βΊοΈ To vote? π
Now of course I understand that some things may be different for everybody! For example if you want a baby you maybe first want a job for a couple of years. Or some want a baby earlier or not at all!! So for those questions: what is the best age FOR YOU?And for some questions (for example the voting) you can say in general what you think is best!! π
I think having a child in ages of 25 to 30 is better.
Obtaining a driver's license at the age of 18.
Regarding voting, I think it should be at the age of 14 because teenagers also have the right to express their opinions and they are not children.
βΊοΈ To get a baby? πΆDepends on what you mean by "best age".I'd tend to say the younger possible if you consider how exhausting it is to take care of someone else; being 40 for a woman (or worse, 60 for a man) when having a child will be very difficult to manage in my opinion. Imagine, your child ask you to do hiking, bike or any physical activity and you are 70, or even 50; pure pain for everyone.
For social/resource matter, I'd say that, in the West, we commit, too often in my opinion, the mistake consisting in wanting to "be ready" before having a child. I don't believe that you can ever be ready to experience parenthood; it falls on you and then you do your best. I find this excuse too easy too, for you will always find something to say that you are not ready...
βΊοΈ To be allowed to get your driving licence for a car? πHonestly, I don't know. 18 sounds ok for me. However I disagree with what you say, @Yue_
I don't think the "young people" who drive cars like crazy in some cities own a driving license or paid for their cars. When you start to pay 2000β¬ for a driving licence and much more for car + gas, insurances... you strangely become much more careful. The ones who acts like retarded despite paying will not change, young or not, without learning the hard way and yet, it's not always enough.
βΊοΈ To vote? πI'm not fond of democracy and don't really believe in voting. Rather than age, I would say that it should depends on other factors that would prove citizenship/being attached to their country and being informed enough on the topic they are asked to vote about. I think although the brain still develops for quite a white (around 25years according to some), a well informed 16 years voter would worth more than a 60 years old who "believe that they heard it from..." without being able to tell us why they vote for something.
Thank you very much @Sarahsalah27, @Lianshen and @Pennarossa2024 for your posts!! This forum goes so fast it is difficult to keep up! π
@Sarahsalah27 i think we think the same for a baby 25-30 so you can get starting working some years maybe and also be married. Do you know how many children you want to have later? For me it is two children! π
@Lianshen thank you very much for your answers!! I think it is true that you can never be ready to be a parent fully. But it is nice to have work and income so you can take care of the baby. If you are 25-30 you can help children when they are older because you are strong enough from body and you have income and that you can provide in a good way for the child in the future. So maybe that is the best but of course it can depend for everybody.
And the question of @Pennarossa2024 is interesting but i also understand you because sometimes voters say very strange things why they vote but it is not because of what politicians mean and want. But i dont know if that is majority of people that vote or only some that speak for example with a journalist. But it is difficult what the best is. π
@Lianshen do you love dictatorships or democracy?https://youtu.be/6NTkXIidCU0?si=lyb-ho90wch_VWhe
Democracy has some interesting points, but it also has many flaws. Furthermore, assuming that it is inherently good because it is "democracy" is called dogmatism. Also dictatorship doesn't mean tyranny.
Thank you very much @Sarahsalah27, @Lianshen and @Pennarossa2024 for your posts!! This forum goes so fast it is difficult to keep up! πThank you very much @Yue Your words are niceπ₯°β€πΊ, and I am glad that we think the same way.@Sarahsalah27 i think we think the same for a baby 25-30 so you can get starting working some years maybe and also be married. Do you know how many children you want to have later? For me it is two children! π
@Lianshen thank you very much for your answers!! I think it is true that you can never be ready to be a parent fully. But it is nice to have work and income so you can take care of the baby. If you are 25-30 you can help children when they are older because you are strong enough from body and you have income and that you can provide in a good way for the child in the future. So maybe that is the best but of course it can depend for everybody.
And the question of @Pennarossa2024 is interesting but i also understand you because sometimes voters say very strange things why they vote but it is not because of what politicians mean and want. But i dont know if that is majority of people that vote or only some that speak for example with a journalist. But it is difficult what the best is. π
Regarding the number of children I would like to have in the future, two children as well. ππ₯°
https://youtu.be/6NTkXIidCU0?si=lyb-ho90wch_VWheDictatorship Is not tyranny? Do you like Hitler, Stalin, Mussolini, Franco, Pinochet? Bye bye mister Lianshen.Democracy has some interesting points, but it also has many flaws. Furthermore, assuming that it is inherently good because it is "democracy" is called dogmatism. Also dictatorship doesn't mean tyranny.
Dictatorship Is not tyranny? Do you like Hitler, Stalin, Mussolini, Franco, Pinochet? Bye bye mister Lianshen.Dictatorship is the rule by one person or a small group. Tyranny is an oppressive and cruel way of ruling. Not only you can have a dictator that is not a tyrant, but a democracy can very much turns into a tyranny.
Plus don't forget that if you only see democracy vs dictatorship, then most of rulers were dictators, yet, most of them were not tyrants.
Dictatorship is the rule by one person or a small group. Tyranny is an oppressive and cruel way of ruling. Not only you can have a dictator that is not a tyrant, but a democracy can very much turns into a tyranny.Dictatorship always becomes tyranny. Unfortunately, perfect democracy does not exist even in Western countries that claim to be democratic. But dictatorship and tyranny have done tremendous damage to my family too. Greetings and best wishes Mr. LianshenPlus don't forget that if you only see democracy vs dictatorship, then most of rulers were dictators, yet, most of them were not tyrants.
Dictatorship always becomes tyranny. Unfortunately, perfect democracy does not exist even in Western countries that claim to be democratic. But dictatorship and tyranny have done tremendous damage to my family too. Greetings and best wishes Mr. LianshenYou can say the same thing with democracy: it always becomes to tyranny. I invite you to read me again too, because of us, you are the one who talks about dictatorship and tyranny as the only alternative to democracy.
Again, let me tell you that seeing democracy as inherently good is dogmatic. See you.