What’s your taste in women/men?

Heavy wallet and royal title

Imagine if some1 liked u for ur beauty only, how would u feel?

I'd feel rich

personalities:
-loyal
-equality (teamwork person)
-royal
-soft spoken
-mature
-well educated
-respectful
-smart not in academically, but also mentally, & socially
-a whole person (not asking for the lost pieces to other), if not, at least want to change and not a denial or use their weakness/illness as their alibi in making the same mistake for over and over again (so manipulative 🚩🚩🚩)
-problem solver
-outgoing

physically:
i like a guy who have villain face, the vibes like loki, or draco. he dress so well, cool, standing with proud of his gf, smell so good, & cool hairstyle.

Maybe it is nice if you have a relationship that you have a lot of things that are the opposite. So for example if you are very insecure that he is confident. And if you are sometimes stressed that he is always calm and patient. But if he is too calm, you can suggest nice things to do and you always add something to each other's life.

But with some things it is nice to be more the same. Like for example that you have the same music taste or what kind of series you like to watch together. Of course does not always need to be the same, but also not only opposites.

My criteria's are: ...
Thats it! 🙂

i have no cause LOVE IS LOVE; LIKING IS LIKING!

I hope that you get later a very nice boyfriend or husband and that you feel happy and safe and calm and nice about the relationship. I wish that for you and good wishes always come true i hope! 😛

One time I saw a docu on youtube with my mom about japan and there were guys who did not want to date a real girlfriend because they had a relationship with the girl from a special app. So that girl is only from the app and not real! And the app gives tasks like go to the park and make a selfie or buy something nice to eat and they pretend they do all that with the girl from the app. And their parents cant make them stop the app to date a real girlfriend because they prefer the app. I will try to find the docu and put a link here when I am home later. But if it happens also in other countries then a lot of guys perhaps do not want to date girls anymore.

Edit: This is not the docu i mean but it is about same topic: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1FIOcIDM5U0 In this video a person says even it is the partner of the future! 🫤🫤🫤

via an app is the most stupid thing ive ever heared, i guess!!! sorry.

I agree Mare so you do not need to say sorry!! BUTTTT i am now with a friend and we sat together in the lunch break looking on youtube and it is not just in Japan!!!! We found videos about AI girlfriends or virtual companions also in other countries. What we dont understand is why guys like these apps more than to have a real relationship? If it is like a game people play ok, but they replace a real relationship! That we dont understand at all.

i like having a real relationship much more then a god damn app!!!!!!!! :/

But if other guys do prefer the app it is very difficult because they make the AI girlfriends perfect in the way what guys want and in real life you can never be like that. But guys will maybe expect that or they dont want you as girlfriend anymore. Maybe not all guys but the ones that prefer the app now. 🙄🙄

I lived long enough to know that Eros doesn't favour those with long, complicated list of expectations. Preferences are useful in picking toppings for your pizza during the order. Love emerges without an order.

I lived long enough to know that Eros doesn't favour those with long, complicated list of expectations. Preferences are useful in picking toppings for your pizza during the order. Love emerges without an order.

Or maybe TRUEEE ❤️ is picking together the toppings of the pizza and eat it together!! That is very romantic!!! 🥰🥰🥰

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thank youuuuuu somuch @Pennarossa2024 !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!😃😃😃😃

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i like a man who is strong . neither thin nor fat. someone you can communicate with for hours. someone who is funny and dressed casually and classically. preferably with dark hair and dark eyes. he must be the leader

Reading through this forum has made think.

How likely, statistically speaking, is it for you to meet someone who matches your checklist of criteria? More specific expectations lower the chance of finding someone who meets them. (Edit: Just statistically speaking, finding a perfect match is impossible, real relationships are complicated. Yet they work out. And people who make their relationships work, who address their partners needs, are admirable.)

Also, people and social interactions are very complex. There is a sort of chaotic element to social interactions. People who at first glance don’t have a lot in common can become very close, because on some „hidden“ level they are vibing with each other. So, having something to look for in people, something that makes someone immediately likeable/attractive might be good starting point, but ultimately the chaotic element might be more important to determine if two people are a good match.

Edit: In response to @mayuuram

If you are craving something specific, lowering your standards will only be counterproductive.

I should rephrase my comment

We all have needs in relationships, knowing your own needs and your (potential) partner’s and clearly communicating forms the framework of a successful relationship. I was mostly talking about „wants“ in my deliberation, neglecting the needs.

Probably because I myself haven’t defined my needs, so I haven’t been able to „filter“ by my needs.

Also, I think that the needs shape the „wants“.

Foe example: The need to be heard and to have your problems addressed may result in the „want“ of an especially caring partner. But expecting a partner to dedicate all their time to you is unrealistic and selfish. It is a fantasy.

Being able to differentiate between needs and fantasies is important (obviously needs and fantasies are the extremes, most wants are somewhere in between. Most people should be able to recognise fantasies, but locating other wants on the scale is more difficult)

A relationship consists of compromises, so everyone’s needs are met.

So finding a partner means finding someone who is willing and able to satisfy your needs and in turn you have to be the same to them.

objection!!!

I want to give a defense, during these 23 years I have met many people with various backgrounds, personalities, mindsets, races and so on, I have also tried to get close to various kinds of human including boy/man.

But, there is one fact that I found. In fact, by lowering our standards, it would only make us feeling unloved later. By lowering standards, it is the same as lowering the quality of ourselves only to meet more chances like you said. and when I'm not firm, I actually get more tired because there are too many options, and I select it even more extra, not to mention i also meet childish men who just want to play around, or endup met people who have no quality, only have wealth but have no taste in anything and act so foolish.

In fact, I met my love when I was firm with everything, I was honest about what I like, I was honest about what I want, i was honest what i expect in my relationship and at that time he didn't mind. In terms of taste, standards, personality, physical appearance and hobbies, we are the same, moreover he also fits my type.

he's loyal, he also stand for equality (teamwork person), royal, soft spoken, mature, well educated, respectful, smart not only academically (his bachelor GPA 3.7) but also mentally, & socially (he always care to his surroundings, he sacrifice a lot, he loves pet and do street feeding to stray cats, he often does charity, so warm), he's multi-talented (can play various instrumental, can sing, a coffeemaster, can cook, willing to do domestic stuff, a journalist and do voice acting) a whole person, not a manipulative, a problem solver, outgoing, have a cold stare, he dress so well, cool, standing proud of his gf, smell so good, and has cool hairstyle, he's completely my type. and vice versa, i also his type (How do I know? His friend told me). and we are about to enter the fifth year of our relationship which i'm so proud of it!

So my message is, keep your standards, never be afraid of not meeting them, quality over quantity!

let people decide what is best for them without making it seem like their mindset is wrong and ending up lying to themselves just because people say different. always believe in yourself and always believe you'll get everything you wish for! let's keep claiming & giving positive affirmation to our life 💅🏻💃🏻✨

Reading through this forum has made think.

How likely, statistically speaking, is it for you to meet someone who matches your checklist of criteria? More specific expectations lower the chance of finding someone who meets them. (Edit: Just statistically speaking, finding a perfect match is impossible, real relationships are complicated. Yet they work out. And people who make their relationships work, who address their partners needs, are admirable.)

Also, people and social interactions are very complex. There is a sort of chaotic element to social interactions. People who at first glance don’t have a lot in common can become very close, because on some „hidden“ level they are vibing with each other. So, having something to look for in people, something that makes someone immediately likeable/attractive might be good starting point, but ultimately the chaotic element might be more important to determine if two people are a good match.

Edit: In response to @mayuuram

If you are craving something specific, lowering your standards will only be counterproductive.

I should rephrase my comment

We all have needs in relationships, knowing your own needs and your (potential) partner’s and clearly communicating forms the framework of a successful relationship. I was mostly talking about „wants“ in my deliberation, neglecting the needs.

Probably because I myself haven’t defined my needs, so I haven’t been able to „filter“ by my needs.

hhh thankyou, anw a disclaimer, i'm not being upset/angry, i'm just being a leo

hhh thankyou, anw a disclaimer, i'm not being upset/angry, i'm just being a leo

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Im a leo toooo @mayuuram

Im a leo toooo @mayuuram

i know auntie, i checked yours in birthday forum hhh 💅🏻💃🏻✨