I agree with what you all said.
My friends always ask me why I'm not in a relationship and how I can be happy without a boyfriend.
And I tell them that I'm happy and that I don't need to pressure myself in a relationship if I'm not in love with someone. If the right person comes, he/she comes ... I'm not in desperat need to have a relationship right now. I'm doing the things that I want right now ... like traveling or finishing University.
I'm single because I still haven't found the right girl. I found someone back in 2013 from this website but she turned out to be fake. Right now I think I know what I want and have my priorities right, and so I want the same from her. I have been single for like 5 years now and the previous one too was a long distance relationship, which damaged me badly but I've been healing ever since.
Yes, when your heart is broken, you can be devastated. And being single is also really important, because you need to know what it is like to be on your own. I mean we are born alone, and die alone. But being in a relationship with someone you really love and your partner loves you, is the best thing. So avoiding a relationship isn't the solution. I mean, you don't have to look for someone. Let it come to you. Having heartbreaks and experiencing painfull things are a part of being alive. It makes you who you are now. When you are dealing with your pain, it makes you weak but every other person goes through the same. Avoiding things because you don't want to get hurt after isn't the solution. After a long time it can make you only more unhappy. Im not saying you NEED someone, because that's not true, but you can make amazing memories with people who you love. Your best friends can also stab you in the back, and that hurts too, but that's not a reason to never have a friend right?
I am single because I can't forget the goods moments I had with my ex he still in my mind I can't love other or looking for anyone, we are stay long distance now But we still be good friend . That's why I still single
But here is my view:
follow your heart and persue your dreams. Be true to yourself. If you meet a good person on that path, it might just be the best thing ever to team up and walk amongstside.
And no, that really does NOT mean you should have the same dreams. But the same lifestyle or views on life, can make someone feel like a soulmate in minutes.