I deeply respect your opinion but I think it’s important to answer some of your questions or confusions. In Islam we believe this life is a test, those who pass it will be sent to heaven and those who fail it will be sent to hell. Allah SWA created humankind to know and worship him (Quran 51:56), to exercise moral responsibility (Quran 2:30) and to freely choose god with one’s own choice (67:2).
Regarding the concept of love, in the Quran Allah tells his people he loves them and this is shown in many ayats e.g. 5:54 - He loves them, and they love him, 3:31 - God will love you and forgive your sins etc. Allah has 100 names and one of them is Al-Wadud translated as the most loving. I know the meanings may differ but Allah loves his people.
Prophet Mohammed (PBUO) allowed polygamy only under the circumstances that the man ensures all 4 wives are treated with equality.
Divorce was introduced to prevent any harm.
This is based on what the Quran teaches, and it’s not said to offend anyone or their religious beliefs.
Thank you for your answer.
As you said yourself, Muhammad reintroduced polygamy - not the Lord.
1) Honestly, it is impossible to treat and truly love 4 women with equality. Muhammad called Fatima his favourite wife, isn´t it?
2) I doubt that any woman wants to be one of multiple women - instead of being the unique love of her husband. It´s degrading.
3) It makes perfect sense that true religion upholds the highest moral standards. God does not lower His moral standards. It does not make any sense that He should change His word...and suddenly gives permission for polygamy and divorce...??
4) In the Christian faith, marriage is a lifelong, indissoluble union between one man and one woman (that is open to procreation). This is the perfect, divine model of the love. It was like this in the beginning when He created Adam and Eve (not 4 Eves) and it is His will forever.
5) Divorce creates, not prevents harm. E. g. Children with divorced parents have 4 years less life expectation in the average.
6) Moreover, the Quran allows death punishment, maybe even torture? The Catholic faith doesn´t. The truth does not need violence.
Maybe you know the example which is often used by muslims to illustrate the "mercy" of Muhammad. It is about a woman who broke the marriage. Some muslims claim it is mercy because he allowed her to first give birth to her child and even feed it for a year...but after the baby did not need milk anymore, he took her child and gave it to another man...and gave permission to stone her.
Jesus instead faced the same situation...the woman was saved, He forgave her the sins and asked her not to sin again.-
Should God give different instructions in the same case...?
Maybe those thoughts will sounds provokative. I don´t want to be offensive and I hope all the other muslim readers wont get angry...it´s just what I heard and learnt so far.
God bless. ✨