I have been thinking about the question a bit more. Maybe I am ready for it if you really ❤️❤️ somebody and you are sure that he really loves you too. And if it is true love and it can be a really special moment i think maybe it could happen that you kiss.
I know that some people kiss a lot faster and like it. That is ok i think and nothing wrong. I respect that if it is their choice. But i also hope that people respect my choice that you must be ready for kissing somebody and that it can be a really special moment.
Thanksssss!!! But i think you dont have to wait until you get married unless you want that of course. But if you have a real beautiful relationship and you are in love and him too then i think it can happen that you kiss in a really special moment. Like for example if you are at a very special place. 😊😊
Tbh: I wouldnt kiss anyone now. I think I will find someone good. If i wanna marry the person really muvh and Know him well I would ngage with the person and I think i would stay engaged min. 1 year and I would probab kiss the person while the engage time but no sec or other stuff and after marrieage everything is free.
Yeah, me too. And I wouldn't kiss anyone right now either. And without sex before the wedding...
But look, just because you kiss a boy doesn't mean you're forced to marry him
Comunque non ricordo l'età della prima limonata ma ricordo che era autunno ed eravamo seduti su un muretto vicino alla stazione della metropolitana
That's defenitely not what I meant! I asked @Mulanyyy and @Kotyaka2023 if they wanted to wait for marriage to get their first kiss and just said I won't have to make that choice, because my choice is already in not wanting to get married.
@Mulanyyy and @Kotyaka2023 thanks for your answers! Btw, is waiting for marriage common in your cultures?
I haven't had my first kiss yet. I don't want to get married, so I won't have to consider waiting for it.
I really look up to you a LOTTT @-Kiki- and i think if you decide that you have a relationship with somebody that this person is really super lucky and must earn it!!! Or we come with a SUPER BIG team and help you if the person is not super nice to you!!! 😊😊😇😇
I think I was 13! and it was with a boy I was very much in loveee with 🥹 I am glad my first kiss wasn’t with just a random person!
I like what you wrote because you said it is not just a random person but that it is REALLY SPECIAL!!! That is what i want too if you have it in a special moment that is really important. Not like in movies bc that is impossible but that he loves you too (not only saying but he means it) and also thinks it is a really special moment like you. 🙂
Some people do! I don’t want to judge but generally that means the person feels some kind of need to fill a void. At least in my experience talking to friends that did that, they tried to say it was just because it’s fun but actually I know they were just trying to feel emotions.
Omg I don’t want to pretend to be a psychologist hahah. I give a lot of importance to physical contact and love demonstrations, so when guys in nightclubs or parties have tried to initiate something with me I always said no! To me these kind of things are better shared with someone you love, or at least someone you have feelings for 🩷✨
I really look up to you a LOTTT @-Kiki- and i think if you decide that you have a relationship with somebody that this person is really super lucky and must earn it!!! Or we come with a SUPER BIG team and help you if the person is not super nice to you!!! 😊😊😇😇
I like what you wrote because you said it is not just a random person but that it is REALLY SPECIAL!!! That is what i want too if you have it in a special moment that is really important. Not like in movies bc that is impossible but that he loves you too (not only saying but he means it) and also thinks it is a really special moment like you. 🙂
Awww that means a lot to hear!! 🥺🥺🥰🥰 Thank you, you're such a sweet person Yue! 😇😇🥰
@martutuni I agree! I also think physical intimacy and love gestures are meant for special people only. I do understand people who want to do stuff with others to fill a gap, but on the other side; I think I'd regret it if I had my first kiss and stuff with a stranger. I think you're strong for standing by your values, especially in a night club!
Some people do! I don’t want to judge but generally that means the person feels some kind of need to fill a void. At least in my experience talking to friends that did that, they tried to say it was just because it’s fun but actually I know they were just trying to feel emotions.
Omg I don’t want to pretend to be a psychologist hahah. I give a lot of importance to physical contact and love demonstrations, so when guys in nightclubs or parties have tried to initiate something with me I always said no! To me these kind of things are better shared with someone you love, or at least someone you have feelings for 🩷✨
Yes, I totally agree with you
And about marriage in my culture... it depends on the person and/or family 🌷✨
Kissing is nice, it feels nice! But to me it feels awesome if I love that person. Butttt it doesn’t mean you can only love one person
Well if you really like/love that person it’s absolutely awesome best feeling ever god you don’t know how much i’d pay to have a good boyfriend but boys treated me so damn badly that i am traumatized so i just don’t date anyone to not get hurt and if someone will like me they will come to me I stopped looking for someone/asking them out.
Well if you really like/love that person it’s absolutely awesome best feeling ever god you don’t know how much i’d pay to have a good boyfriend but boys treated me so damn badly that i am traumatized so i just don’t date anyone to not get hurt and if someone will like me they will come to me I stopped looking for someone/asking them out.
Yeah(. I'm also unlucky with boys in real life. Although, here too. Except Mare. Well, not in the sense of dating, but in general...
