But look, just because you kiss a boy doesn't mean you're forced to marry him
Comunque non ricordo l'età della prima limonata ma ricordo che era autunno ed eravamo seduti su un muretto vicino alla stazione della metropolitana
That's defenitely not what I meant! I asked @Mulanyyy and @Kotyaka2023 if they wanted to wait for marriage to get their first kiss and just said I won't have to make that choice, because my choice is already in not wanting to get married.
@Mulanyyy and @Kotyaka2023 thanks for your answers! Btw, is waiting for marriage common in your cultures?
I haven't had my first kiss yet. I don't want to get married, so I won't have to consider waiting for it.
I really look up to you a LOTTT @-Kiki- and i think if you decide that you have a relationship with somebody that this person is really super lucky and must earn it!!! Or we come with a SUPER BIG team and help you if the person is not super nice to you!!! 😊😊😇😇
I think I was 13! and it was with a boy I was very much in loveee with 🥹 I am glad my first kiss wasn’t with just a random person!
I like what you wrote because you said it is not just a random person but that it is REALLY SPECIAL!!! That is what i want too if you have it in a special moment that is really important. Not like in movies bc that is impossible but that he loves you too (not only saying but he means it) and also thinks it is a really special moment like you. 🙂
Some people do! I don’t want to judge but generally that means the person feels some kind of need to fill a void. At least in my experience talking to friends that did that, they tried to say it was just because it’s fun but actually I know they were just trying to feel emotions.
Omg I don’t want to pretend to be a psychologist hahah. I give a lot of importance to physical contact and love demonstrations, so when guys in nightclubs or parties have tried to initiate something with me I always said no! To me these kind of things are better shared with someone you love, or at least someone you have feelings for 🩷✨
I really look up to you a LOTTT @-Kiki- and i think if you decide that you have a relationship with somebody that this person is really super lucky and must earn it!!! Or we come with a SUPER BIG team and help you if the person is not super nice to you!!! 😊😊😇😇
I like what you wrote because you said it is not just a random person but that it is REALLY SPECIAL!!! That is what i want too if you have it in a special moment that is really important. Not like in movies bc that is impossible but that he loves you too (not only saying but he means it) and also thinks it is a really special moment like you. 🙂
Awww that means a lot to hear!! 🥺🥺🥰🥰 Thank you, you're such a sweet person Yue! 😇😇🥰
@martutuni I agree! I also think physical intimacy and love gestures are meant for special people only. I do understand people who want to do stuff with others to fill a gap, but on the other side; I think I'd regret it if I had my first kiss and stuff with a stranger. I think you're strong for standing by your values, especially in a night club!
Some people do! I don’t want to judge but generally that means the person feels some kind of need to fill a void. At least in my experience talking to friends that did that, they tried to say it was just because it’s fun but actually I know they were just trying to feel emotions.
Omg I don’t want to pretend to be a psychologist hahah. I give a lot of importance to physical contact and love demonstrations, so when guys in nightclubs or parties have tried to initiate something with me I always said no! To me these kind of things are better shared with someone you love, or at least someone you have feelings for 🩷✨
Yes, I totally agree with you
And about marriage in my culture... it depends on the person and/or family 🌷✨
Kissing is nice, it feels nice! But to me it feels awesome if I love that person. Butttt it doesn’t mean you can only love one person
Well if you really like/love that person it’s absolutely awesome best feeling ever god you don’t know how much i’d pay to have a good boyfriend but boys treated me so damn badly that i am traumatized so i just don’t date anyone to not get hurt and if someone will like me they will come to me I stopped looking for someone/asking them out.
Well if you really like/love that person it’s absolutely awesome best feeling ever god you don’t know how much i’d pay to have a good boyfriend but boys treated me so damn badly that i am traumatized so i just don’t date anyone to not get hurt and if someone will like me they will come to me I stopped looking for someone/asking them out.
Yeah(. I'm also unlucky with boys in real life. Although, here too. Except Mare. Well, not in the sense of dating, but in general...