Solitudine Alles Mögliche

What do you think about loneliness?

What do you think about loneliness?

Solitude helps us reflect. Too much loneliness kills

Thank you for your topic, Lorenzo. Thank you all for your inspiration.

Here is my experience:
Neglecting lonliness and silence brings symptoms of the body.
A lot of my patients don`t have the patience to listen to their body.

Thank you for your topic, Lorenzo. Thank you all for your inspiration.

Here is my experience:
Neglecting lonliness and silence brings symptoms of the body.
A lot of my patients don`t have the patience to listen to their body.

I think it's different from being alone. You can be alone without feeling lonely and vice versa, you can feel lonely even if you are surrounded by many people.
What I mean by this is that it can be very interesting to be alone, to do your things to take time for yoursef, but lonelinss is rarely a moment one will enjoy at all in my opinion. It's even a sign that something if off, not to say painful and should be treated by finding the causes of it and a potential solution.

La solitudine non è una sola, ci sono diversi tipi di solitudine, possono aiutarci o distruggerci.
Se abbiamo bisogno di pace, di riflettere, di rilassarci, ci ritiriamo un momento in solitudine, ma se questa solitudine ci viene quasi imposta allora può distruggerci e poi si passa alla depressione.
Ci sono persone che non sono in grado di star bene con sé stesse quando stanno da sole, altre che hanno la solitudine nel cuore anche in mezzo ad amici, ognuno è fatto a modo suo ed ognuno deve imparare ad usare la solitudine in maniera costruttiva, non distruttiva, non è facile, soprattutto per chi deve impararlo da adulto, ma bisogna accettarla in certi momenti, combatterla in altri, la maturità della persona aiuterà in questo senso, perché l'immaturo avrà sempre bisogno di qualcuno che lo guidi, il maturo invece troverà soluzioni, se poi alla maturità si uniscono anche una certa dose d'intelligenza, di volontà e determinazione che danno forza, allora il gioco è fatto, come disse Montale "...e andando nel sole che abbaglia, sentire con triste meraviglia, com'è tutta la vita e il suo travaglio, in questo seguitare una muraglia che ha in cima cocci aguzzi di bottiglia" cosi non fare che la solitudine diventi un coccio aguzzo che t'annienta l'anima, reagisci!

What do you think about loneliness?

"There are two ways of feeling loneliness: feeling alone in the world or feeling the loneliness of the world. Those who feel alone live a purely individual drama; the feeling of abandonment can come even in a splendid natural setting. In that case it only concerns one's own restlessness. Feeling projected and suspended in this world, incapable of adapting to it, consumed within yourself, destroyed by your deficiencies or exaltations, tormented by your insufficiencies, indifferent to external aspects - bright or dark as they may be -, remaining in your internal drama: this is what individual loneliness means. The feeling of cosmic loneliness derives not so much from a purely subjective torment, but rather from the feeling of abandonment of this world, from the feeling of an external nothingness. As if the world had suddenly lost its splendor to represent the essential monotony of a cemetery. Many people feel tortured by the vision of a derelict world, irremediably abandoned to a glacial loneliness, which not even the weak reflections of a twilight light can reach. Who are the most unhappy: those who feel solitude within themselves or those who feel it outside? It is impossible to answer. And then, why should I bother to establish a hierarchy of solitude? Isn't being alone enough?" (Emil Cioran)

i dont think lonlynesss is such a good idea, if your living alone, you must atleast have something to talk to.