🌸🌈 YOUR character ✨❤️

Helloooo everybody!!! 🙋‍♀️ Some time ago i can remember super well that @Colin_Der_Backfisch said that now there are maybe forums abt EVERY topic!!! 😛 😛 And i said NOOO and it is super easy to make new ones that are maybe nice!!! 🙂 And im not sure if we ever had forum topic like this but i think it is nice. I talked abt it with a new friend i have made this summer ANDDD i thought when i spoke with her abt it that it is maybe also nice for a new forum and what Colin said!!! 😃

SOOO i have made a few questions and maybe some people like to answer them or maybe tell abt the topic what they like!! Thank you very much for anybody who writes what they think!!! 🙏😊🥰

Questions:

1️⃣ Do you think that your character has changed a LOTTT or not at all in the last few years? And if yes how?

2️⃣ Do u feel super insecure bc of your character with others? For example in new groups or if u have maybe a date or when people all look at u (like at presentation or show)?

3️⃣ How do ur friends or your family describe your character?

4️⃣ Are there things u wanna change of ur character? And if yes what?

5️⃣ Do you think it is IMPOSSIBLE to change your character?

6️⃣ If you have a partner now or maybe later: what kind of character do u think is really nice of him or her?

7️⃣ Is your character same online and in real life or also differences?

8️⃣ What do u think of people who are more introvert and sometimes insecure or maybe shy?

➡️ New question from @Colin_Der_Backfisch: If you'd have to choose only ONE character trait to keep a long lasting friendship, which is the most important one?

➡️ Do you maybe have a question that i must add in the list?

Thank you very much anybody who wants to answer the questions or just read them or write about the topic anything they want!!! 🌈🥰🌈

Helloooo everybody!!! 🙋‍♀️ Some time ago i can remember super well that @Colin_Der_Backfisch said that now there are maybe forums abt EVERY topic!!! 😛 😛 And i said NOOO and it is super easy to make new ones that are maybe nice!!! 🙂 And im not sure if we ever had forum topic like this but i think it is nice. I talked abt it with a new friend i have made this summer ANDDD i thought when i spoke with her abt it that it is maybe also nice for a new forum and what Colin said!!! 😃

SOOO i have made a few questions and maybe some people like to answer them or maybe tell abt the topic what they like!! Thank you very much for anybody who writes what they think!!! 🙏😊🥰

Questions:

1️⃣ Do you think that your character has changed a LOTTT or not at all in the last few years? And if yes how?

2️⃣ Do u feel super insecure bc of your character with others? For example in new groups or if u have maybe a date or when people all look at u (like at presentation or show)?

3️⃣ How do ur friends or your family describe your character?

4️⃣ Are there things u wanna change of ur character? And if yes what?

5️⃣ Do you think it is IMPOSSIBLE to change your character?

6️⃣ If you have a partner now or maybe later: what kind of character do u think is really nice of him or her?

7️⃣ Is your character same online and in real life or also differences?

8️⃣ What do u think of people who are more introvert and sometimes insecure or maybe shy?

➡️ Do you maybe have a question that i must add in the list?

Thank you very much anybody who wants to answer the questions or just read them or write about the topic anything they want!!! 🌈🥰🌈

AHHHHH HEY @Yue_ !!!!!

No way you remember this haha!

And glad I see a forum of yours again, always like them! 💫

It's a pleasure to be first always, so let me start hehe.

1) Yes, definitely. I've grown more mature over time, and also I think my character is way more shaped and defined than before. Normal during puberty I guess, but for me, I really am aware of that, felt a lot of changes actually happening.

2) Not really. I'm not comfortable with big crowds or masses of people, but it's not about them judging my character, just that I don't like being around. With time I learned that only the right people's opinion shall matter to you, and you're the one choosing who's important and right to judge for you.

3) I don't know, never really asked them. Would be nice to actually hear it, but I think it will vary a lot.

4) Not really. I think that changes come with time, the good ones and the bad ones. There's no need to rush anything, it could be different some days later again either way.

5) Absolutely not. More the opposite. Quite exactly, to be fair.

6) Understanding people. They should be interested in communicating, emotionally intelligent and value your character. Always working with you, instead of against you.

7) From how I talk to people, yes. Only difference is that in real life I rarely start conversations with people I don't know.

8) I think they like to observe. And find out how people actually are, before regretting to talk to them. At least that's what I do. Often I feel connected to introvert people, only because they're being an introvert.

9) If you'd have to choose only ONE character trait to keep a long lasting friendship, which is the most important one?

Thankssss and danke @Colin_Der_Backfisch for answering the questions!!!! ANDDD i also added ur new question in the list!! 😊😇 I really wanted to answer the questions too in the list before i go on vacation but bc is bit stressy now with packing some things still now super late i give only shorter answers!! 😛

1️⃣ Do you think that your character has changed a LOTTT or not at all in the last few years? And if yes how?

Only little bit that u are LESS silent even with groups or for example with people i dont really know. Like now i have a summer job in supermarket and when u work that u put new items on the shelf really often customers ask where things are and u have to help them and it is not really problem at all. But also that u defend urself bit more too but i dont want arguments irl so not a lot.

2️⃣ Do u feel super insecure bc of your character with others? For example in new groups or if u have maybe a date or when people all look at u (like at presentation or show)?

Yes still i REALLY DONT like to give a presentation and that a LOTTT of people look at u. The ONLY different time is with ballet and u still feel nervous but NOT AT ALL so much like if u give in ur class a presentation and u feel like OK IM DEAD or that u feel tensed but 150 times more!!!! And if u dont know a person and u talk with that person in real life then sometimes i dont feel comfortable or that u dont know exactly what u have to say.

3️⃣ How do ur friends or your family describe your character?

Shy or silent unless u are friends and then they say i talk a LOTTT and they get deaf from the talking.

4️⃣ Are there things u wanna change of ur character? And if yes what?

Not feeling super often insecure or that u feel u are not good enough maybe in some cases. Or if people say often u are shy then maybe that.

5️⃣ Do you think it is IMPOSSIBLE to change your character?

No i think u can change it if that is what u want. But it CANT change if u only do it bc of others and in that case u dont REALLY want it yourself. And also it is difficult or maybe ALSO impossible if u need to do things that u are super uncomfortable like for example doing things like diving in water super deep and u would get like BIG panic attack or that u feel super anxious then u cant change that.

6️⃣ If you have a partner now or maybe later: what kind of character do u think is really nice of him or her?

Maybe that u feel safe is the most important and also that he is nice and shows that u can be what u are and that he does NOT judge about that.

7️⃣ Is your character same online and in real life or also differences?

It is different that online i just post ANYTHING on forum when i have time and think maybe something is nice. BUTTTT irl it is different and depends if for example u know another person REALLY well and then it can be like same and u can say anything or just talk super easy. But with ppl u dont know really well it is more difficult to talk irl than online when u feel LOTTT more safe and well then when they REALLY look at u and speak to u.

8️⃣ What do u think of people who are more introvert and sometimes insecure or maybe shy?

I think it is ok and normal too. Im like that depending if u feel comfortable and who the other persons are and if u know them really well. So how can u judge others who are like that if u are ALSO like that a bit or a lot depending about who the others are.

➡️ New question from @Colin_Der_Backfisch: If you'd have to choose only ONE character trait to keep a long lasting friendship, which is the most important one?

The most important i think if trusting each other bc that is the MOST important so u NEVER feel like something maybe happened or that u feel insecure perhaps. But when u trust that person u feel LOTTT more secure and that u can be more relax then super tensed i think. Im not sure if is really character trait or just thing of the relationship. If u mean character trait of that person i think what i said above in 6.

➡️ Do you maybe have a question that i must add in the list?

No but i hope others like for maybe for example Kerttu @Torakka, @Itsmehhh, @Aooo, @Fleurke, @Miss_Penpal, @mayuuram, @shirazikira and LOTTSS of others answer too and to read what they think!! 🙂