Ratings, Appearance and Self Worth

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Define "expose themselves". If we're talking about the pics on @Benzo_king in particular, do you genuinely think that he's exposing himself? What do you find inappropriate in those pics?

Exposing is when you post thirst traps and that's what he does. However, I appreciate his training regime and I encourage him to continue with training for because of health, not because of selfies

Exposing is when you post thirst traps and that's what he does. However, I appreciate his training regime and I encourage him to continue with training for because of health, not because of selfies

what do you think makes nudity so bad? There can be non-sexual nudity and in any case, we all have a body, so what's so strange about it if it shows?


And I don't mean people should reveal more than they feel comfortable with, I'm usually pretty well covered because that's just the kind of a person i am, but I don't care if someone else reveals more skin than i do. It's nothing to me

what do you think makes nudity so bad? There can be non-sexual nudity and in any case, we all have a body, so what's so strange about it if it shows?


And I don't mean people should reveal more than they feel comfortable with, I'm usually pretty well covered because that's just the kind of a person i am, but I don't care if someone else reveals more skin than i do. It's nothing to me

Because it's rude. Where is the line? Can we all walk naked?

I also don't care too much how they will be dressed if it's in normal boundaries

Because it's rude. Where is the line? Can we all walk naked?

I also don't care too much how they will be dressed if it's in normal boundaries

Why would it be bad if some people were naked? Who gets to define what's normal?

Why would it be bad if some people were naked? Who gets to define what's normal?

Then go ahead, undress yourself completely and exit your house

Then go ahead, undress yourself completely and exit your house

Oh please., try to be serious. Why do you feel such aversion to nudity? If you get to cover up as much as you want, then why does it bother you if someone chooses differently?


I like to cover up and it's rare to see me even in t-shirt and shorts, never mind less than that, but it doesn't bother me if someone else wants to wear less and is comfortable that way.

People will never stop judging others for the way they look and decide to present themselves.

That's soooo sad to think about.

People are people( depeche mode)

Yuck 😂

Blame it on the boogie😁

Oh please., try to be serious. Why do you feel such aversion to nudity? If you get to cover up as much as you want, then why does it bother you if someone chooses differently?


I like to cover up and it's rare to see me even in t-shirt and shorts, never mind less than that, but it doesn't bother me if someone else wants to wear less and is comfortable that way.

I am serious...you have said it's ok to be naked. Then please go ahead and exit your house naked, what's stopping you?

I am serious...you have said it's ok to be naked. Then please go ahead and exit your house naked, what's stopping you?

You absolutely are not serious. You keep repeating same sentence like a five-year-old... :-D

I don't want to do that so I won't. I just don't think it's ok for me to decide for other people. Just like it isn't ok for you to decide for other people, either. And yet you fail to provide even a single logical argument as to why people should see this your way. =)

You absolutely are not serious. You keep repeating same sentence like a five-year-old... :-D

I don't want to do that so I won't. I just don't think it's ok for me to decide for other people. Just like it isn't ok for you to decide for other people, either. And yet you fail to provide even a single logical argument as to why people should see this your way. =)

Nice try by belittling me. I have just said what you.ve said - you wouldn't have a problem if somebody is naked. That implies that people are allowed to walk around naked if they want. That's all

Edited by Korisnik .

About this i have a story, A few days ago I had the chance to make a workout planner for my bestfriend, i dare to say that he is so smart, multi-talented (can play piano, guitar, and sing), have a good position (HR & Business Consultant), nice, gentleman, handsome and he has super cute girlfriend; and then, he asked me to make a workout plan so that he can be more productive and also looks more attractive (bulky) according to his personal standards (cause indeed our type is subjective and everyone has rights on it). I agreed and made him one cause why not.

Workout, besides being able to make our body and face well-shaped and help to enhance our charm, workout is scientifically proven to improve mood, clear out cognitive system and help in brain function and growth. Therefore, workout itself can also be an indirect factor in shaping one's personality. Honestly, we can achieve both as long as we have the money and are smart about managing our time. That's why the more you grow up, the more you realize how important it is to have a well-planned schedule so that you can manage your activities & target well.

I mean, Humans have free will and unlimited choices & rights as long as you are being open-minded. it's not a sin If you can have & want both, or even just want to focus on one, but, why do we must be limited into certain option?🤷🏻‍♀️

Edited by mayuuram .

Why are we so hung up on validation these days? You can't love shit if you don't love yourself...

period, self love is the most important things. you can be whatever damn you want, you can have the beauty (cause beauty indeed so subjective) and still having good personality. like i'm not gonna lie, i love to see myself pretty while seeing the mirror, and i also happy whenever i see someone else happy, i help them if i have the chance, etcetc. we clearly have that freewill in living our life.

I mean, Humans have free will and unlimited choices & rights as long as you are being open-minded. it's not a sin If you can have & want both, or even just want to focus on one, but, why do we must be limited into certain option?🤷🏻‍♀️

Most people have some choice and the healthier and wealthier one is, the more choice there is. But it is totally wrong to say everyone has a choice and that it is unlimited. We are limited by a lot of things. Most of us are too poor to be free. Health conditions limits ones life too.

That said, it is only smart to do what you can with what you've got and having goals about how one looks can be part of that. But there's just too many people out there who polish their looks but do nothing about their lack of empathy and cold hearts. I believe, if one has to choose, then developing empathy is more important than looks. But ideally, there would be opportunity for both. Being in a body one feels comfortable with can be a source of energy and happiness too.

First of all, it's your poor mindset that always finds excuses for every statement of mine. Eggs are cheap, salad/greens are cheap, especially if you grow them yourself; you'll get an unlimited source of greens. Hmm, what else? Oatmeal is cheap, chicken breast is cheap. Lots of cheap stuff is actually healthy if you ever bother to examine and search on Google for healthy and affordable food sources and recipes to make it delicious.

Training at home is indeed much cheaper and affordable. Dumbbells? Cheap, or if you can't afford dumbbells, there are plenty of options online that can give your solution of which stuff you can use to help your weight training. Yoga mat? Cheap, or if you can't afford them, you can skip it and use shoes/sandals instead and do the standing workout.

you have limited time? sure, there plenty option of exercise that you can do according your needs, preference, limited time etc, lot of website also offers free or cheap schedule manager that can help you in managing your schedule for work, break, lunch workout or whatever activities you're gonna do.

Normalizing healthy living, exercise does not mean only caring about physical health and criminalizing or belittle those who do not live healthily, but it can also training oneself which can help in various aspects, please look for the benefits of healthy living, exercise, etc. for health, psychology, mental health, individual character building, etc; lots. again, as i said we actually can do and be more as long as we want to open our mind.

We're already spoiled with a vast source of information that's easily available and accessible on the internet, especially since some places now offer free Wi-Fi. If you always make excuses, the problem isn't whether you're financially poor or not, but rather how closed, and poor your mindset is that you always make excuses for things you can actually do as long as you have the willingness.

anyway, you clearly missed the whole point until you can made such statement that only shows how fragile your ego is

Edited by mayuuram .