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Well, Daniel, here we are again.
LOVE is the context that I am following, also here on PPG....🙂 Someone able to LOVE is LOOKING amazingly GOOD and everyone who think otherwise, is just looking in a mirror.
At the end ... everything is an expression of LOVE
I think having just one person who truly cares for me is more important. Someone who always worries about where I am and what I doing, who knows how to smile sincerely with me when I'm happy, and who knows how to grieve with me when I'm sad. Was there someone who stood by you and gave you strength when you were at your lowest point?
If you have someone like that by your side, no matter where you are, what you do, or what kind of life you live, you are the happiest person in the world..
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Guys... if it is LOVE, all differences disappear. Just be full of LOVE and leave the rest to the universe.
michael
I don't think so. It's entirely possible to love someone who is so terrible they are absolutely impossible to be with. In that case, one just has to step away and cut contact or at least keep very strict limits to it, no matter how much love there is
I think for me one of the most important things is that u feel safe. And i dont mean only that he would not hurt u but also that he respects how u are and does not put a lot of pressure on you or that he would ever shout bc that would make me block and feel very unsafe. I think it is very important that u feel safe bc if u dont feel that way i think u cant have love for each other and that u give ur ❤️ to him.
Yeah… I get what you mean. Feeling safe isn’t just about physical things, it’s more about how someone treats you day to day.
I think when someone really respects you, they don’t try to control you or pressure you into being someone else. You should be able to relax around them, not feel like you have to be on guard all the time.
And honestly, the shouting part—I agree. Once things turn into that, it stops being a healthy space. You can disagree with someone and still stay calm and respectful.
It sounds like you value something real and stable, not just something intense for the sake of it
Out of curiosity… what makes you personally feel the most comfortable around someone?
Yeah… I get what you mean. Feeling safe isn’t just about physical things, it’s more about how someone treats you day to day.
I think when someone really respects you, they don’t try to control you or pressure you into being someone else. You should be able to relax around them, not feel like you have to be on guard all the time.
And honestly, the shouting part—I agree. Once things turn into that, it stops being a healthy space. You can disagree with someone and still stay calm and respectful.
It sounds like you value something real and stable, not just something intense for the sake of it
Out of curiosity… what makes you personally feel the most comfortable around someone?
Thank u very much!! I have to think a little bit abt it bc i think it is a very good question. Sorry i want to think first before i answer it!! 🙏🙏🙏
Yeah… I get what you mean. Feeling safe isn’t just about physical things, it’s more about how someone treats you day to day.
Very much this. It's about it being safe enough to be imperfect, it being safe enough to fail, but also being safe enough to grow past your former shortcomings and become better as a person. A good partner is someone who helps you grow and become better
Very much this. It's about it being safe enough to be imperfect, it being safe enough to fail, but also being safe enough to grow past your former shortcomings and become better as a person. A good partner is someone who helps you grow and become better
Not sure I should really share my own views on love, but I can agree with this. Love is a gift you make and a gift you welcome, it's a safe heaven you find and a safe heaven you provide, It's entrusting to another imperfect being the most fragile part of you and having at heart their most fragile part. It's a bit of sun in your soul when the other is there, and a damn painful void when that sun isn't left any chance to shine.
I also think what @Azryffel and @-Phil- said. And also it is abt lot of small things. Like for example one of my friends her bf often makes jokes abt HER when he is with his friends. And even when she does not say anything i KNOW it hurts her. So if u know that he really ❤️ u and that he does not want to hurt but to protect u that is very important to feel safe. And maybe if u make a lot of effort to do smt nice for him like doing ur best later and he lets u know in a way that he sees that and likes it. 🙂 But of course if he doesnt see it then it is also ok but maybe u can just see that he appreciate the things u do for him too. 😊😊🥰
If it really is LOVE, then it will reduce my narrow-minded view of the world to ashes. That is why most people, with good reason, fear 'her' arrival, prefer, to linger in fantasies
Please be gentle, I am still a learning writer....🙂
True love can be both very beautiful and be very painful at the same time🙏🫠
@Dracula i think u forgot one thing bc u say it is very beautiful and very painful but i think also super scary bc u dont really now how he thinks abt u back. And even if u know that u dont really know how it goes if u get the relationship together.
And there is also this forum True ❤️ forum BUTTTT it is more funny and not super serious!!! 😛😛
They say you don't say "I love you" when love begins, but when it ends. If you genuinely like someone, don't feel the need to try to impress them. It is important to show yourself as you are, without pretense. It is truly comfortable to be with someone who likes that side of you.
@Dracula i think u forgot one thing bc u say it is very beautiful and very painful but i think also super scary bc u dont really now how he thinks abt u back. And even if u know that u dont really know how it goes if u get the relationship together.
And there is also this forum True ❤️ forum BUTTTT it is more funny and not super serious!!! 😛😛
That worry does get less as the relationship matures. But of course there is always the chance something happens. Even in the greatest relationships, one usually dies before the other and one person is left alone. But it's also possible to grow apart and find that one person no longer loves the other while the other might continue to love. I've been the party in this kind of a relationship where I've been the one to love more deeply and longer than the other, it's rather painful. But very open communication is the key here, I think. If you talk a lot (and both be honest of course) then eventually, as the relationship matures, then you do know. Well, people who are very young have of course never experienced this, because it takes years for a relationship to get to that point where you actually know the other person. =)