Hey, thanks for the kind words. I'm not suffering as much as it might sound. Of course, broken hearts are not nice, and healing them isn't easy. It's a long and painful process; you have to learn to let go again and again. But as you said, there are good sides to it too. You'll learn from it. I think everyone reading this, who has been in at least one relationship, would agree with me when I say that you'll grow from it. You learn new things, you develop incredibly and you change your perspective on many things. So it's nothing to be afraid of. I'm not proud of my trait of falling in love too quickly, and I'd like to be able to change it, but since I can't and I'm grateful for every single experience, I've realized it's not worth thinking about it anymore. I know, it might sound crazy to be thankful for every experience, but I really am. For the good ones, obviously, but also for the bad ones, because I most likely won't have to go through them again. And please don't be afraid of relationships or that someone will hurt you. People hurt each other; that's normal. I can't promise you'll have a relationship where you won't get hurt, just as less as I can't say you would. And don't worry about the fact that I've had several and you haven't. As you can see, it hasn't worked for me even once, and even if it would've had, it wouldn't be meaningful. The only thing that matters to me are the impressions and experiences, and you'll gain them over time, regardless of whether you're in a relationship or not. Just go with the flow. Please don't force yourself into anything; it won't end well. Believe me, I've experienced that often enough in all kinds of situations. So: don't worry about it until you have to. Whether you're in a relationship or not, you'll gain great experiences and develop further 🙂
Even if people end up hurting you, I think everything happens for a reason. And if you ever make up, it'll only strengthen the relationship. The most important people in your life are the ones you went to hell and came back with.
Thank you very much @Colin_Der_Backfisch and @Miss_Penpal! What you say is right but i didnt think about it really yet like that. I was more worried about if i get rejected on a date bc i never had a date so you are even more nervous and also if you have a relationship some things during that which make me uncomfortable and worried. But i didnt think about what you said yet so i was a bit hit by that. BUTTTT it is good that you said it and also @Miss_Penpal bc now i think about it too if i am ready for a relationship. I thought yes but maybe also waiting a little bit more can be better and you can also take time to think about some things more.
I had several love interests. I had unserious things and I had a relationship with someone i loved very much and breaking up with him ruined me and my life. Now after a year and a half i found a bf that really loves me i think,but i’m scared to suffer or that he’ll leave me (i have bdp so i am very scared of abandonment)
I had several love interests. I had unserious things and I had a relationship with someone i loved very much and breaking up with him ruined me and my life. Now after a year and a half i found a bf that really loves me i think,but i’m scared to suffer or that he’ll leave me (i have bdp so i am very scared of abandonment)
It is super nice to read that you have a bf now Rose!!! 😊😊 He must treat you VERY nice or whole PPG gets angry!!! 😛 If he really ❤️ and other persons treated you bad in the past than he deserves that he gets trust from you if he treats you really well and that he shows it is true 🥰🥰. That way it can be really special and nice for you both without it being like the past.
It is super nice to read that you have a bf now Rose!!! 😊😊 He must treat you VERY nice or whole PPG gets angry!!! 😛 If he really ❤️ and other persons treated you bad in the past than he deserves that he gets trust from you if he treats you really well and that he shows it is true 🥰🥰. That way it can be really special and nice for you both without it being like the past.
🌸🌼🌻🌹 for you BOTHH!!! 😇😇
Thank you yue! I hope it will be good this time❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you yue! I hope it will be good this time❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I am 10000% sure it will be good and that he does not leave you bc he is NOTTT crazy!!!!! 😛😛
And later you can give us a LOTTTT of tips. 😊😇😇 After all the bad things that happened the last times you DESERVE absolutely to be happy!!!! So i am happy for you and now i know you have a GOOD summer!!! 🥰🥰🥰❤️❤️❤️
