Esma-Nur

I dont ask you to be friendly but i do ask you to behave and not troll. It is strange that this is so difficult for you unless you just want to troll which you do like so many others already said. You are the first person who was banned from the forum for two weeks and that was not without a reason. If you keep writing in only a negative way and keep trolling I am sure that @Etienne will ban you again but for much longer or like @Pennarossa2024 said maybe forever.

I made an effort for the forum with a lot of interviews and the PPG University with Christine and forums i wrote alone and with others which are serious and for fun and other things. What did you do except trolling and insulting? You got forums locked and you got banned. And you got Pennarossa away like he said himself. I think i made more effort to help the forum than you.

You can tell on me again if you like and get rid of troublemakers, but then you haven't understood what I mean at all.

And is it your job to care for that? Obviousl you feel attacked or in which way was my comments belonged to your business?;

You can tell on me again if you like and get rid of troublemakers, but then you haven't understood what I mean at all.

And is it your job to care for that? Obviousl you feel attacked or in which way was my comments belonged to your business?;

You are allways the one making trouble, doesnt matter what kind of forum it is.

@TierM38 , I understand that you can feel attacked by people who openly disagree with you, but it's not because others have a different opinion that they're trying to silence yours or bring you down. I think what everyone means when they answer to you is that you could phrase your sentences in a nicer way, since you often use negative and/or pejorative words. For example, instead of asking "is it your job to care for that?", you could say "That falls under someone else's responsibility". It's a more neutral way of saying that it's not the person's duty and avoids sounding accusatory.

You can also add to your message the reasons why you feel attacked and try to find solutions to that so others can understand what you dislike and make an effort so you feel welcome on the forum, like everyone else. Talking things out can be of great help. I just want to let you know that it's difficult to be receptive when the only comments and answers from a person are a flood of negativity. It feels like an avalanche of gloom falls on your head and it doesn't make you want to be nice when you answer back.

Btw. Im not the only person with that mention here, believe me!

Btw. Im not the only person with that mention here, believe me!

Others with that mention arent active out here anymore.

Others with that mention arent active out here anymore.

Who

...until a hands full people are here who comfort each other and how nice everybody has to be or is.

So mission accomplished.

Who

Liwenbo, Micheal (lir elhan) and for sure more.

I dont mention azmin, cuz he didnt do anything.

And some people you wont expect but dont Tell in public.

Like who?

How dumb do you think am I?

How dumb do you think am I?

Very dumb. Is that an answer? Yes, it is.

Because there's worse doesn't mean you can be disrespectful. If someone is being rude to you, you wouldn't like it. So I don't understand why anyone would act without taking into account how they would feel in the same situation.

I'm trying to be empathetic with you and give you a chance because I don't know you, maybe you're living something difficult in you life and you're throwing your stress in other people's faces. Perhaps you weren't even aware of how your words came across, but now you're aware of it because you've been warned many times. You know what you're doing and you keep attacking people for no reason like a feral goose, and that's just beyond the pale.

With all due respect, I'm sure insulting others isn't even satisfying to you, so why do you do it? I don't understand why and I think you should just leave the forum if it doesn't bring you any satisfaction + it takes away others' fun. If there's no point, stop wasting your and everyone else's time with accusations and rude messages.

People, right now you discuss about this stuff, not me!! Like last time, and I am been told I do drama...

The discussion could have ended one page ago!

People, right now you discuss about this stuff, not me!! Like last time, and I am been told I do drama...

The discussion could have ended one page ago!

Exactly, if you ended up apologizing a page ago, all this would be over! Verbal violence is still violence, if you hit a person or walk on their foot you have to apologize, so why not when you say something wrong? You're just acting like this because you think you're safe behind your screen, and that's despicable.

I would have let it go if it was the first time, but every time a person leaves and warns their friends about it, you say they're being dramatic. You can insult me all you want, but I won't let it slide if you're being mean to the people I care about. Plus, making a forum about a leave, temporary or not, is just a way to tell every penpal you have about it without sending a bajillion private messages. It doesn't make you a drama queen, it just means you don't have to copy and paste the same thing thousands of times. If you don't like this kind of forum IGNORE THEM instead of spitting on them.

If you don't want to start drama, then don't send short, double-sided messages. That's exactly how you start drama, so if you don't want any just STOP. It's as simple as that. I'm sure you can send your point without sounding like a mannerless, pessimistic person.

My apologies for the mild insults, but I'm really sick of having to explain over and over how you should at least TRY to be positive for once. Friendships get stronger when you go to hell and back with the person, but with you it feels like we're only going to hell to sightsee and never get back out. "Oh, look, a pit of suffering! Why don't we all go take a dip?" It's not nice and very infuriating, as much as I'm trying to see the good sides.

verbal violence???

verbal violence???

Verbal abuse (also known as verbal aggression, verbal attack, verbal violence, verbal assault, psychic aggression, or psychic violence) is a type of psychological/mental abuse that involves the use of oral or written language directed to a victim. Verbal abuse can include the act of harassing, labeling, insulting, scolding, rebuking, or excessive yelling towards an individual. It can also include the use of derogatory terms, the delivery of statements intended to frighten, humiliate, denigrate, or belittle a person. These kinds of attacks may result in mental and/or emotional distress for the victim.

Verbal aggression and abuse affects all populations, cultures, and individuals. These actions are psychologically damaging and are considered forms of emotional and physical harm to the victim.

(I underlined what you do, wether you're aware of it or not. Source is Wikipedia, 'Verbal abuse' https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Verbal_abuse )

I think you overthink that a bit. Im not that grumpy you believe!