So if You changed school, how far from the old one it is? How these bullies reach the people around You now? By social media? Or they follow You?
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So if You changed school, how far from the old one it is? How these bullies reach the people around You now? By social media? Or they follow You?
Social media and i live in a very very small town and the school i go to is in front of my old one plus in the new school (I changed in march so it’s not that new anymore) there are the friends of the people that bullied me and they harassed me on my first days. I decided to go there bc:
1) i didnt know that i had to hide
2)bc of my health problems i can’t go in a school that it’s far from my house
they humiliated me in august when i was at a party in my town. In front of my mom. And i have this horrible fake friend that I thought truly liked me but she hangs out with the ones that bullied me.
And @Yue_i talked to many people and nobody cares
So if You changed school, how far from the old one it is? How these bullies reach the people around You now? By social media? Or they follow You?
I think she already got away from the bullies but can't heal the trauma
I'd love to know what @Etienne thinks about bullying and if it's ever happened to him. And in this situation, what would he do?when it happened to me, I completely ignored them
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He would ban or delete the bullier?
🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔. Unfortunately bullies can also arrive here on Penpal Gate
I'd love to know what @Etienne thinks about bullying and if it's ever happened to him. And in this situation, what would he do?when it happened to me, I completely ignored them
Bullying is often tricky. Especially when it's a group thing. Like @Oxiu said it's often better to transition to a new environment whenever possible.
I never really got bullied, sure I've had some kids randomly pick on me before but nothing worth complaining about.
I've heard of several bullying stories, unfortunately it seems that the bullies get away with it almost every time 😓. I think there are 2 ways to handle it: either completely ignore them and wait til they get bored of your non reaction, or fully fight back to try to gain respect. But it's difficult to assess the situation, there are no easy answers
Have they been also physical violent @Roseeeee? Or are they racist in comments or threaten you? Because in that case go to the police and everybody knows it is serious and the school will also be more serious if you went to the police and THEY even have to talk to the police.
Bullying is often tricky. Especially when it's a group thing. Like @Oxiu said it's often better to transition to a new environment whenever possible.
I never really got bullied, sure I've had some kids randomly pick on me before but nothing worth complaining about.
I've heard of several bullying stories, unfortunately it seems that the bullies get away with it almost every time 😓. I think there are 2 ways to handle it: either completely ignore them and wait til they get bored of your non reaction, or fully fight back to try to gain respect. But it's difficult to assess the situation, there are no easy answers
Thanks for the reply. I agree with you
As someone who has been bullied my whole life, I wholeheartedly believe if your safety is being threatened:
1.) take self defense classes and learn how to fight and use pepper spray.
2.) go to the police
@Roseeeee
As someone who has been bullied my whole life, I wholeheartedly believe if your safety is being threatened:
1.) take self defense classes and learn how to fight and use pepper spray.
2.) go to the police
Thanks for the advices. My mother texted my teacher that she wants to talk to the bullies’ families and she ignored the message. This is so messed up. This situation will never stop they see me as a loser