Let’s ask questions to each other being brutally honest

I like what you said about @Roseeeee!! That is very sweet!!! 🥰🥰

And i think if you had relationship when you were 20 that it would also be special for her because you are a very nice guy!!! And thank you for the answer what you said about most other guys in school that is very honest but also it is sad and strange because they dont care about their girlfriend at all that way. That is not nice and i think it is not a real relationship that way.

I have a question for @mayuuram: did you ever go on a date with a guy because you were afraid to say no because you dont want disappoint him?

HAHAHA THE QUESTION 🤣 yes, a couple times or three... or whatever i forgot it's been 4 years+ a go ykno. i mean yeah, i'm not the 'judge by it's cover' type of person. so rather than say no, I'd rather try it first. who knows we can works things ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯

Eventhough it always ends in disappointment, whether it's me who turned out don't like him (either because of his very bad odor or the way he speaks/act/mindset that I don't like. even though he's really charming!!!), or it simply we only great for being friends, not as a couple. but things make me realize why they are single for a long time.

now i'm curious too @Yue_ , have you been in puppy love before? if yes, what's ur type? 😏

I have a question for @Parsaa. Do you get offended when I call you Parsy Pappparsaaaaa?🤔🤔🤔🤔

Nooo why haha. I get happy, i like it.

Paaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaappppppppppppaaaaaaaaaaaaaarsaaaaaaaaaaaaaa very Happy😆😎

Woww i come back from lunch and there are difficult questions!!!! 😬😬😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫 Now it is dangerous to eat lunch i think!! 😛 😛 But i answer the questions now from @Parsaa and @mayuuram:

I have a question for @Yue_

U always had some problems… idk how to name it, i mean in past you were always worried about OTHER people, you had so much stress for other people and u always thought tgat you arent enough for them. Right now i dont receive that feeling from you, i want to ask: how did you manage it? And what did you learn about it?

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I also want to ask something from all girls around the world.😅 i have always felt that you get so many compliments from many people everyday . How does it feel?😭😂 awkward or cool? (I dont even know if thats real just explain me)

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and the last one is for @Etienne . Why did you restricted us from writing more than once in a forum?

1️⃣ For me some things are different but some things not. Now i have not a problem AT ALL if i write things on the forum. So I hope others like it and they can post comments if they want. But if people dont like to comment that is not a problem at all because we have so many forums that i think there is maybe always something that is nice for that person. And i like if i can get comments from people who dont write super often at the forum. But they dont always want to reply if i tag them but i hope that sometimes they do if they want that too.

But what has not changed is that it is VERYYY different between real life and on the forum. So if i dont feel comfortable yet or if you are with strangers or a group of person in real life I am silent most of the times. And I am afraid if i say something that people judge it or that it is stupid. But with my friends I can talk a lot but they too!!! I try sometimes also like on the forum to say more things in normal life but i think that is always difficult for me. Maybe that does not change fully. In any case I must feel comfortable or i can be very silent and unsure what you have to say in a situation. But on the forum i have not a problem at all!! 😛

I hope that answers your question @Parsaa and probably most people here dont have the same but i hope others understand it.

2️⃣About the second question of @Parsaa: if we are with friends we give A LOTTT of compliments to each other. But NOTTTT only because you have to give compliments but if we mean it if for example someone has nice clothes or they did something with their hair i think it is normal to give a compliment if you like it. But if strangers give compliments in real life i dont know very good what to say and also why they give the compliments. Sometimes it is scary because you know that something is not good maybe. Sometimes that happened. But from friends it is always nice!!!!! 🙂

3️⃣ And about your question for @Etienne: i found that out too!! I have with interviews if i want to ask a question immediately too i have to wait sometime and i can post it. Or you have to edit the last post but sometimes that is strange because it is the interview and i want my new questions or comments to be separate or it looks super strange. But you just have to wait for some minutes.

HAHAHA THE QUESTION 🤣 yes, a couple times or three... or whatever i forgot it's been 4 years+ a go ykno. i mean yeah, i'm not the 'judge by it's cover' type of person. so rather than say no, I'd rather try it first. who knows we can works things ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯

Eventhough it always ends in disappointment, whether it's me who turned out don't like him (either because of his very bad odor or the way he speaks/act/mindset that I don't like. even though he's really charming!!!), or it simply we only great for being friends, not as a couple. but things make me realize why they are single for a long time.

now i'm curious too @Yue_ , have you been in puppy love before? if yes, what's ur type? 😏

It is a very difficult question because i dont know it surely. So if i think a guy is really nice and he would ask a date i would die i think because i have no idea what you have to say to them. But even if maybe a date is nice if you dont have to talk so much like for example if a guy asks to go to ice skating rink in a tent that we have that can be nice perhaps. BUTTTT i really dont want to kiss in one way or i throw up. And i mean that it is not a joke.

But like @Simone724 said i am afraid if you go on a date with a guy and you say yes to that, but they dont really care about you at all or love you. 🙁 That is very difficult because they only want to say they went on a date with you or they want to kiss or cuddle and they dont have REAL feelings for you AT ALL.

➡️ Now I have a question too for @Parsaa: if a girl loves you and asks if you want to go on a date in Iran but you dont want it. Are you super brutal and hard about that or do you say in a kind way that you dont go on the date. Or do you go on the date not to hurt her about it?

➡️ And I have a question for @mayuuram: if a guy talks to you on a date and you have NO IDEA what you have to say back is that super awkward that you feel like you die? And do you always know what to talk about with your boyfriend now?

Woww i come back from lunch and there are difficult questions!!!! 😬😬😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫 Now it is dangerous to eat lunch i think!! 😛 😛 But i answer the questions now from @Parsaa and @mayuuram:

1️⃣ For me some things are different but some things not. Now i have not a problem AT ALL if i write things on the forum. So I hope others like it and they can post comments if they want. But if people dont like to comment that is not a problem at all because we have so many forums that i think there is maybe always something that is nice for that person. And i like if i can get comments from people who dont write super often at the forum. But they dont always want to reply if i tag them but i hope that sometimes they do if they want that too.

But what has not changed is that it is VERYYY different between real life and on the forum. So if i dont feel comfortable yet or if you are with strangers or a group of person in real life I am silent most of the times. And I am afraid if i say something that people judge it or that it is stupid. But with my friends I can talk a lot but they too!!! I try sometimes also like on the forum to say more things in normal life but i think that is always difficult for me. Maybe that does not change fully. In any case I must feel comfortable or i can be very silent and unsure what you have to say in a situation. But on the forum i have not a problem at all!! 😛

I hope that answers your question @Parsaa and probably most people here dont have the same but i hope others understand it.

2️⃣About the second question of @Parsaa: if we are with friends we give A LOTTT of compliments to each other. But NOTTTT only because you have to give compliments but if we mean it if for example someone has nice clothes or they did something with their hair i think it is normal to give a compliment if you like it. But if strangers give compliments in real life i dont know very good what to say and also why they give the compliments. Sometimes it is scary because you know that something is not good maybe. Sometimes that happened. But from friends it is always nice!!!!! 🙂

3️⃣ And about your question for @Etienne: i found that out too!! I have with interviews if i want to ask a question immediately too i have to wait sometime and i can post it. Or you have to edit the last post but sometimes that is strange because it is the interview and i want my new questions or comments to be separate or it looks super strange. But you just have to wait for some minutes.

It is a very difficult question because i dont know it surely. So if i think a guy is really nice and he would ask a date i would die i think because i have no idea what you have to say to them. But even if maybe a date is nice if you dont have to talk so much like for example if a guy asks to go to ice skating rink in a tent that we have that can be nice perhaps. BUTTTT i really dont want to kiss in one way or i throw up. And i mean that it is not a joke.

But like @Simone724 said i am afraid if you go on a date with a guy and you say yes to that, but they dont really care about you at all or love you. 🙁 That is very difficult because they only want to say they went on a date with you or they want to kiss or cuddle and they dont have REAL feelings for you AT ALL.

➡️ Now I have a question too for @Parsaa: if a girl loves you and asks if you want to go on a date in Iran but you dont want it. Are you super brutal and hard about that or do you say in a kind way that you dont go on the date. Or do you go on the date not to hurt her about it?

➡️ And I have a question for @mayuuram: if a guy talks to you on a date and you have NO IDEA what you have to say back is that super awkward that you feel like you die? And do you always know what to talk about with your boyfriend now?

ohh it's cute to see ur reaction, it's so pure 😂 but if one day someone hit on u, but then he also hurt you, this sissy will kick him & give him some lesson until he regret doing that 😌

and about your question, tbh it's never happen to me. i mean, yea, i met some of weird/perv guy who act as their wish eventhought he knew i have bf, but never be like super awkward over him. i can cut, be mad whenever i want.

and about convo, yes we can talk about everything like in everyday, because our taste and scope of topics that we like are the same. starting from talking about movies, music, conspiracies, social issues, etc. My bf can not only be a bf, but also a best friend, brother, culinary friend, anything. so we're not a couple that only know kissing and cuddle and think it's the only & most essential in relationship, nah nope 😄

anw @Simone724 @Yue_ @Roseeeee @Pennarossa2024 @Parsaa @TierM38 i wanna ask u something, in ur eyes, what kind of person do you think you are?

ohh it's cute to see ur reaction, it's so pure 😂 but if one day someone hit on u, but then he also hurt you, this sissy will kick him & give him some lesson until he regret doing that 😌

and about your question, tbh it's never happen to me. i mean, yea, i met some of weird/perv guy who act as their wish eventhought he knew i have bf, but never be like super awkward over him. i can cut, be mad whenever i want.

and about convo, yes we can talk about everything like in everyday, because our taste and scope of topics that we like are the same. starting from talking about movies, music, conspiracies, social issues, etc. My bf can not only be a bf, but also a best friend, brother, culinary friend, anything. so we're not a couple that only know kissing and cuddle and think it's the only & most essential in relationship, nah nope 😄

anw @Simone724 @Yue_ @Roseeeee @Pennarossa2024 @Parsaa @TierM38 i wanna ask u something, in ur eyes, what kind of person do you think you are?

I am a very patient person. I am a person who has suffered a lot. I get angry very easily but I always forgive. I am Italian and I have many typical Italian defects. For me friendship is very important. I can love with unconditional love. But in an instant I can end a relationship if I see lies and disrespect.

@mayuuram in my eyes, i'm a lazy, curious (and, for this reason, maybe inopportune) and lonely person, i spend most of the time alone and i'm slave to my emotions. But i'm also empathetic, caring and friendly, and i like to listen to other people and to help every time i can. If a person doesn't know me, they may think i'm a weird person; if they know me, they'll be sure i'm a weird person. I'm nobody, but nobody is like me.

At first i never reject. Because you know most of girls arent ugly. we should get to know each other more, maybe she will change her mind😂 her personality is more important to me, i cant judge since i dont know her.

And for @mayuuram question , two different answers .

In real world, i see myself as a person who always laughs at everything and has a good humor.

in penpal gate , since i wasnt grown up with English language, im not funny at all. And it kinda bothers me cuz im not used to it. Else than that i guess im considered as a weak guy who is feminie😂 well thats just the opposite of me in real world. I talk so much with my friends. And im so quiet with new people.

Parsa Is a great person, Singer, writer, poet, journalist 😎and 🏀🏀🏀🏀the king of basketball

I think @Simone724 and @Pennarossa2024 could be like brothers even if they dont know it!!!!! I ❤️❤️ them both a lot and i hope that they know it. Because they are always super kind and patient and @Pennarossa2024 protects everybody on the forum and is like a super nice father person and @Simone724 has a gold heart and is one of the kindest persons i know. 🏆🏆🏆 I think that if you have wives they are very lucky but i dont know if you both know that. I just wanted to say it one time also on the forum because i really mean it. 🥰🥰

And @Parsaa could be like the son if Lorenzo because you are both super PPG stars and always kind and not trying to hurt anybody but supporting others. ✨✨

And @mayuuram if you write something i read it at least more times because you write in a very nice way and you are super patient and not getting super annoyed if we say something stupid. You can say to your boyfriend that he must always keep you very good because we want that you have always best things everywhere!!! 🏆🏆🏆🤗🤗🤗

I think @Simone724 and @Pennarossa2024 could be like brothers even if they dont know it!!!!! I ❤️❤️ them both a lot and i hope that they know it. Because they are always super kind and patient and @Pennarossa2024 protects everybody on the forum and is like a super nice father person and @Simone724 has a gold heart and is one of the kindest persons i know. 🏆🏆🏆 I think that if you have wives they are very lucky but i dont know if you both know that. I just wanted to say it one time also on the forum because i really mean it. 🥰🥰

And @Parsaa could be like the son if Lorenzo because you are both super PPG stars and always kind and not trying to hurt anybody but supporting others. ✨✨

And @mayuuram if you write something i read it at least more times because you write in a very nice way and you are super patient and not getting super annoyed if we say something stupid. You can say to your boyfriend that he must always keep you very good because we want that you have always best things everywhere!!! 🏆🏆🏆🤗🤗🤗

Simone is a great friend and a great person🏆

Simone is a great friend and a great person🏆

I agree 💯% but YOU TOO!!!! 😊😊

This forum that @Roseeeee made is special because you can ask SUPER personal questions that are maybe difficult to ask. I think that is what the forum is about if i am right.

So I have a question now for @Roseeeee: if your parents demand that you do something (for example to stop smoking or to do a particular thing), is it normal in your family that you MUST listen or does it not have to happen?

At first i never reject. Because you know most of girls arent ugly. we should get to know each other more, maybe she will change her mind😂 her personality is more important to me, i cant judge since i dont know her.

And for @mayuuram question , two different answers .

In real world, i see myself as a person who always laughs at everything and has a good humor.

in penpal gate , since i wasnt grown up with English language, im not funny at all. And it kinda bothers me cuz im not used to it. Else than that i guess im considered as a weak guy who is feminie😂 well thats just the opposite of me in real world. I talk so much with my friends. And im so quiet with new people.

then your issue match with this article, turns out it's so normal parsa 😄 you can read here: https://psyche.co/ideas/speaking-a-different-language-can-change-how-you-act-and-feel

I am a very patient person. I am a person who has suffered a lot. I get angry very easily but I always forgive. I am Italian and I have many typical Italian defects. For me friendship is very important. I can love with unconditional love. But in an instant I can end a relationship if I see lies and disrespect.

yeah i agree with you, lies and disrespect are two things that could break relationship. but if the person as for forgiveness, would you forgive?

@mayuuram in my eyes, i'm a lazy, curious (and, for this reason, maybe inopportune) and lonely person, i spend most of the time alone and i'm slave to my emotions. But i'm also empathetic, caring and friendly, and i like to listen to other people and to help every time i can. If a person doesn't know me, they may think i'm a weird person; if they know me, they'll be sure i'm a weird person. I'm nobody, but nobody is like me.

well everyone are weird in their own way, everyone has deepest yet darkest secret that they kept to 'play normal' (it's only the matter are you a brave or coward one about to show your weird side) and as long as it didn't harm people, it's sooo fine 😄

i mean who care, the hater wouldn't wanna hear ur honest clarification, they only wanna know & hear what they believe and the one who genuinely like u, wouldn't need any

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I think @Simone724 and @Pennarossa2024 could be like brothers even if they dont know it!!!!! I ❤️❤️ them both a lot and i hope that they know it. Because they are always super kind and patient and @Pennarossa2024 protects everybody on the forum and is like a super nice father person and @Simone724 has a gold heart and is one of the kindest persons i know. 🏆🏆🏆 I think that if you have wives they are very lucky but i dont know if you both know that. I just wanted to say it one time also on the forum because i really mean it. 🥰🥰

And @Parsaa could be like the son if Lorenzo because you are both super PPG stars and always kind and not trying to hurt anybody but supporting others. ✨✨

And @mayuuram if you write something i read it at least more times because you write in a very nice way and you are super patient and not getting super annoyed if we say something stupid. You can say to your boyfriend that he must always keep you very good because we want that you have always best things everywhere!!! 🏆🏆🏆🤗🤗🤗

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awww that's cuteee @Yue_ 🌺🌸🌻 my home are wide open when u or any PPG member one day travel to Indonesia (especially to jakarta), and if you need any place recommendation, i'll be glad to give it.

and yes, i wish u all the best too! 🥺🤗✨

I agree 💯% but YOU TOO!!!! 😊😊

This forum that @Roseeeee made is special because you can ask SUPER personal questions that are maybe difficult to ask. I think that is what the forum is about if i am right.

So I have a question now for @Roseeeee: if your parents demand that you do something (for example to stop smoking or to do a particular thing), is it normal in your family that you MUST listen or does it not have to happen?

@Yue_ ‘s question: I didn’t expect this forum to have so much success to be honest

of course my parents wants me to listen to them but they aren’t strict. They accepted that i don’t care about some things they say and they “stopped fighting “ and gave up,for example about wearing summer clothes in winter. In some topics it’s obviously necessary to listen like in every family.

@mayuuram ‘s question: i know that some people on penpal gate wouldn’t believe it but irl i am an extremely shy person. I see myself as a determined,introvert and “crazy” person (i know it’s a very cringe term but i kinda see myself like this idk)

and the last one is for @Etienne . Why did you restricted us from writing more than once in a forum?

3️⃣ And about your question for @Etienne: i found that out too!! I have with interviews if i want to ask a question immediately too i have to wait sometime and i can post it. Or you have to edit the last post but sometimes that is strange because it is the interview and i want my new questions or comments to be separate or it looks super strange. But you just have to wait for some minutes.

Because I've noticed some people sometimes send a bunch of posts in a row as if forums are private conversations. It makes topic readability harder because posts are not condensed like private messages are (they visually take up much more room) so it's a way to encourage grouping what you want to say into a single interaction, with as much formatting as you want. If the majority of people dislike this change, I'm wiling to revert it, but I feel like it may be an effective way to prevent unintentional spamming (feel free to vote with thumbs up/down on this message if you want to keep/ditch this change)

I also want to ask something from all girls around the world.😅 i have always felt that you get so many compliments from many people everyday . How does it feel?😭😂 awkward or cool? (I dont even know if thats real just explain me)

I don’t get compliments often o.o

@Yue_ ‘s question: I didn’t expect this forum to have so much success to be honest

of course my parents wants me to listen to them but they aren’t strict. They accepted that i don’t care about some things they say and they “stopped fighting “ and gave up,for example about wearing summer clothes in winter. In some topics it’s obviously necessary to listen like in every family.

@mayuuram ‘s question: i know that some people on penpal gate wouldn’t believe it but irl i am an extremely shy person. I see myself as a determined,introvert and “crazy” person (i know it’s a very cringe term but i kinda see myself like this idk)

Thank you very much for your answer @Roseeeee and i think they way you are with your parents is very good and normal. Most of my friends are also like that with their parents!!

And the way you describe yourself for @mayuuram's question is very true i think. I know EXACTLY how it is to be extremely shy in real life like you. But i think in other ways you are also very brave and confident too. I hope that you dont mind if i say that. Because you have also good reason to be confident!!

Because I've noticed some people sometimes send a bunch of posts in a row as if forums are private conversations. It makes topic readability harder because posts are not condensed like private messages are (they visually take up much more room) so it's a way to encourage grouping what you want to say into a single interaction, with as much formatting as you want. If the majority of people dislike this change, I'm wiling to revert it, but I feel like it may be an effective way to prevent unintentional spamming (feel free to vote with thumbs up/down on this message if you want to keep/ditch this change)

I think this is for @Etienne to decide it. Can I ask also a question to you in this forum? But if you dont like it you can of course not answer it!!!!!

Can i ask: what were you like in high school? Were you very shy or NOT at all??

Because I've noticed some people sometimes send a bunch of posts in a row as if forums are private conversations. It makes topic readability harder because posts are not condensed like private messages are (they visually take up much more room) so it's a way to encourage grouping what you want to say into a single interaction, with as much formatting as you want. If the majority of people dislike this change, I'm wiling to revert it, but I feel like it may be an effective way to prevent unintentional spamming

i think you should make manual tutorial for this new update haha

I don’t get compliments often o.o

But you do deserve them @Emmiiii_17_11!! But if i say that you are a super nice person and PPG star-✨ it is not just a compliment it is also the truth!! 🏆🥇