This is my first post in the forum that I started. I know Pennarossa said today that we should not get too many new posts in the forum. But I want to share a thing. Sorry if this topic is not maybe for your interest. ๐ซข That is ok of course!! If you are interested and want to read, thank you. ๐ Sorry that the post is long but it is difficult for me to explain.
My grandmother she is a Buddhist and she likes telling wise things a lot. So we listen and try to understand it. But I don't always understand her. She tells a lot a story that if you are being attacked you should try be calm and not be angry. She said the Buddha was attacked by demons with arrows and he made the arrows turn in flowers. ๐ธ๐บ So he was not harmed. And later she forgets that she told the story so we hear this a lot!! ๐ฅฐ
In the forum it is a lot of times like a warzone. I am not good in that. I also try not to be in chatroom because I hear a lot that there are a lot of fights. โ๏ธ I am not an important person to ask so I cant say like what everybody should do. But I try myself only to post comments in forum if it is a nice comment about somebody and if I mean what I write. If I feel bad about a comment from someone else, I try not post anything about that. And if somebody hates what I write maybe and says something bad, I will try best not respond in bad way. Because that way it never stops. ๐ซ
And if others are strong like the Buddha and that arrows are turned to flowers I think they are true wise persons. ๐ช
I know there is a lot pain about what people already said in forum and chats. But maybe forget that and that you choose not to fight anymore. It does not matter what other people do and say. Always be kind is good no matter what. ๐
Last what I wanted to say is a lot of members have also other pain like feeling depressed or that something is wrong in family because they write about it in the forum. I think it is very strong that they can say that. Maybe only write nice if you read that because we never know everything right. If you write in very strong and bad way, that can be really harmful. Please be careful and soft even if that is maybe weak. โญ๐
Everybody here deserves nice comments and supports. It hurts me if I see that friends or others are attacked and it hurts them. So here is for everybody flowers also if you think this post is stupid and silly you still get flowers ๐บ๐ธ๐ป๐ผ๐น๐ธ๐บ from yue ๐งโญ