yes and even blocked against my principles. because after days of having fun in-depth conversations it suddenly started to feel like I was becoming that person's property. asking why you were online, why you talk to other people. I wasn't afraid but it feels strange how people try to dominate someoneThat's because that person has separation anxiety. They feel like you're going to leave them if you don't respond quickly or have stronger bonds with other people. So they tend to claim you, because they're afraid to loose you. Past trauma and experiences led to them having that kind of anxiety.
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That's because that person has separation anxiety. They feel like you're going to leave them if you don't respond quickly or have stronger bonds with other people. So they tend to claim you, because they're afraid to loose you. Past trauma and experiences led to them having that kind of anxiety.I know people who have separation anxiety with close friends and family, but they don't 'claim' them. And I've seen people who 'claim' others without any anxiety. So you're right that separation anxiety plays a part in this, but you're also wrong since it's not BECAUSE of that that some people do that. There are just people who don't care how others feel as long as they get what they want.
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I know people who have separation anxiety with close friends and family, but they don't 'claim' them. And I've seen people who 'claim' others without any anxiety. So you're right that separation anxiety plays a part in this, but you're also wrong since it's not BECAUSE of that that some people do that. There are just people who don't care how others feel as long as they get what they want.I don't agree. Close friends and family aren't likely to leave you, as they know the worst parts of you already and still stay around you. Most people with separation anxiety don't even know they have such anxiety, as they don't want to do an inner search for their feelings and ignore them. I don't believe people really want to hurt each other without there being a deeper level of fear.
I don't agree. Close friends and family aren't likely to leave you, as they know the worst parts of you already and still stay around you. Most people with separation anxiety don't even know they have such anxiety, as they don't want to do an inner search for their feelings and ignore them. I don't believe people really want to hurt each other without there being a deeper level of fear.
Also @Fleurke, you can react with such an emoji, but separation anxiety really leads to such bad unconscious behaviour.
I have a question? Do you know my life? Do you know what my life was like? I didn't post this emo with a bad intention. I'm not going to tell you why I'm posting this emo, I can only say if you want to be in my entire life line that I've already walked, then only then can we discuss about an emoNo need to be so defensive. I'm just giving an insight of a possible cause for people to act a certain way. It's supposed to help understand people better, not attacking strangers on the internet.
I don't agree. Close friends and family aren't likely to leave you, as they know the worst parts of you already and still stay around you. Most people with separation anxiety don't even know they have such anxiety, as they don't want to do an inner search for their feelings and ignore them. I don't believe people really want to hurt each other without there being a deeper level of fear.Sorry, but the reality is that many people just suck and don't give a hoot of others, diseases or other mental disorders only represent a very low percentage of the reasons they stop talking or writing with you. Most of the times they get sick of you or just don't need you anymore, that's why they stop writing.
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Sorry, but the reality is that many people just suck and don't give a hoot of others, diseases or other mental disorders only represent a very low percentage of the reasons they stop talking or writing with you. Most of the times they get sick of you or just don't need you anymore, that's why they stop writing.You could be right. I don't really want to believe that tbh, but I guess people are like that as well. Tho, there could be reasons behind that as well sometimes.