In my life there are so many people who broke my heart into pieces. All of them were best friends. I think that feeling may only feel for me. Not for them...In your lives are there anyone who had broke your heart? May be your friend or someone else. I'm just curious to help them because I know the pain.. 💔💔
Everybody is invited. If someone wants to tag someone just feel free.. 😊😊
~Savi 👀~ (@NILU1234)
Appearently society doesnt like ppl who are not 'the norm' (in my experience at least)
It is difficult to read that is how you feel it @Ilexforest. I think there is place for EVERYBODY in society and of course also for you. 🙏🙏
In my life there are so many people who broke my heart into pieces. All of them were best friends. I think that feeling may only feel for me. Not for them...In your lives are there anyone who had broke your heart? May be your friend or someone else. I'm just curious to help them because I know the pain.. 💔💔
Everybody is invited. If someone wants to tag someone just feel free.. 😊😊
~Savi 👀~ (@NILU1234)
It is a beautiful forum that you made Savi @NILU1234 BUTTT also difficult. Bc it can be difficult to talk abt it but it is important too of course!!! I am sorry that you feel a lot of hurt but what happened? But only say it if you want it.
For me the thing that hurt most is situation about my grandmother in Nanjing. I told abt it already some times on the forum but she has dementia and in the last summer we went to visit and take care of her in China. And of course we can do things for her but it is also really difficult bc she does not remember very important things anymore or can forget who you are and your name and that makes her super scared too and you need to calm down. But in the past she was super calm and strong and wise. But now it is very difficult to see her that way but you cant do anything abt it. And the only thing that you can do is try to take care of her. That is not easy to do bc you see how she is having difficulties now and for us it is difficult bc it is VERY expensive to go to China bc my parents have to buy tickets ANDDD they dont work during that time and that cost also money that sometimes they cant afford it. But my dad will go alone maybe in September or October when it is maybe cheaper to go. But for me maybe in Christmas holiday but that is not sure. 💔💔 🙁
Appearently society doesnt like ppl who are not 'the norm' (in my experience at least)
As @Yue_ said you have nothing to worry at all. If they try to harm you we will take care of you.. We are always with you...@Ilexforest
It is difficult to read that is how you feel it @Ilexforest. I think there is place for EVERYBODY in society and of course also for you. 🙏🙏
It is a beautiful forum that you made Savi @NILU1234 BUTTT also difficult. Bc it can be difficult to talk abt it but it is important too of course!!! I am sorry that you feel a lot of hurt but what happened? But only say it if you want it.
For me the thing that hurt most is situation about my grandmother in Nanjing. I told abt it already some times on the forum but she has dementia and in the last summer we went to visit and take care of her in China. And of course we can do things for her but it is also really difficult bc she does not remember very important things anymore or can forget who you are and your name and that makes her super scared too and you need to calm down. But in the past she was super calm and strong and wise. But now it is very difficult to see her that way but you cant do anything abt it. And the only thing that you can do is try to take care of her. That is not easy to do bc you see how she is having difficulties now and for us it is difficult bc it is VERY expensive to go to China bc my parents have to buy tickets ANDDD they dont work during that time and that cost also money that sometimes they cant afford it. But my dad will go alone maybe in September or October when it is maybe cheaper to go. But for me maybe in Christmas holiday but that is not sure. 💔💔 🙁
Thank you @Yue_ for answers. Sure I'll share it with you. My two best friends suddenly stopped all the connections between us and they pretend like they have never seen me and continue that ignorance until today.
And also now I feel sad about your story and I realised that There are lot of painful things than my story..
well, i dont know if this is for this topic, nor i its a heart braking fact. But police nowadays......... they can treat you like a huge criminal when youve only been driving with seetbelts on. And when you say something about it, they say you have to wok with them ore they'll handcuff you (weve expercienced this last year with a small Renault Master campervan; on the highway on our way to our very first guitar lessons, my mother and i not wearing seatbelts, driving under a panel that said 'x cameras looking if you wear seatbelts' derectly after that fucking police car passing us and pulling us over :/)
police in Romania (atleast when we were there) were very friendly and helpfull, but in the rest of europe, you cant trust police; everything theyre up to is catching money, if theres nothing to catch money, they dont come.
well, i dont know if this is for this topic, nor i its a heart braking fact. But police nowadays......... they can treat you like a huge criminal when youve only been driving with seetbelts on. And when you say something about it, they say you have to wok with them ore they'll handcuff you (weve expercienced this last year with a small Renault Master campervan; on the highway on our way to our very first guitar lessons, my mother and i not wearing seatbelts, driving under a panel that said 'x cameras looking if you wear seatbelts' derectly after that fucking police car passing us and pulling us over :/)
police in Romania (atleast when we were there) were very friendly and helpfull, but in the rest of europe, you cant trust police; everything theyre up to is catching money, if theres nothing to catch money, they dont come.
You said " catch money" là sao? Can you tell me about this?: Police in some European countries catch money.
i ment to say without seatbelts on instead of with. Well, for the money fact you have for example that they gave my mother and i a ticket of 200€ each ticket, to pay derectly, but on the ttciket was standing, 100€ each ticket if you pay derectly, 200€ each ticked if you pay later. They were trying to get derectly more money from it then asked on the ticket. My mother saw it and told them that that aint right, and they understood.
You said " catch money" là sao? Can you tell me about this?: Police in some European countries catch money.
I hope I didn't break your heart?.. 😔
Ý tôi là không thắt dây an toàn thay vì có. À, về vấn đề tiền bạc, ví dụ như họ đưa cho mẹ tôi và tôi một vé 200 euro mỗi vé, trả thẳng, nhưng trên vé lại có ghi 100 euro mỗi vé nếu trả thẳng, 200 euro mỗi vé nếu trả sau. Họ cố gắng đòi thêm tiền từ vé nhưng lại ghi trên vé. Mẹ tôi nhìn thấy và nói với họ rằng điều đó không đúng, và họ đã hiểu.
Tôi không nghĩ ở châu Âu có chuyện đó. Tôi luôn nghĩ những chuyện như thế này chỉ xảy ra ở các nước đang phát triển, nơi tham nhũng tràn lan.
Cảm ơn bạn!
Broken hearts are not bad all. If no cracks or breaks, where would the Light enter within? That's far better than believing in a lie growning up in the secured dark of an unbroken heart.
@Etienne do something about your translator it got bad manners :/
Tôi không nghĩ ở châu Âu có chuyện đó. Tôi luôn nghĩ những chuyện như thế này chỉ xảy ra ở các nước đang phát triển, nơi tham nhũng tràn lan.
Cảm ơn bạn!
I’m truly sorry you’ve experienced so much heartache, especially from friends who were supposed to be close.
I can relate. I've also faced pain when friendships shattered in unexpected ways. It made me realize how intertwined love, trust, and hurt can be.
What helped me most was acknowledging the grief instead of minimizing it, and slowly turning toward people who treated me with genuine care.
You’re not alone in feeling this, and this community is a space where your feelings are seen. Worthy of friendship and healing? Absolutely.
