its a heart braking fact, my stomach doesnt want to eat it.
And do you know her real name
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its not a guilty pleasure, but i falled in love on a creepy way, since 2 years ago.
back in 2023 i found on the list of teens in spain, on top of the list i found the profile of a (at that time) 16 yeaar old girl livng in spain. (this was on penpalworld). Saidly i falled in love with her when i saw her profile picture. Penpalworld is a site where you may not search for a dating/mariage partner, and i was so stupid to write her that she was the most beautyfull person ive ever seen. Later i didnt have access to her profile anymore, so i contacted the admin cuz i thought he blocked her, but he didnt knew anything about it. Very late in 2024 i found out that i had a list of persons who blocked me on my profile....... she was atleast 1 of the persons who blocked me. The only way for me to get back in contact with her again was creating a second account. So i did that, and then i found out she hasnt been online for more then 170 days. I contacted her anyway, but this time with a mss that i wanted to be her friend. I didnt show up any love this time. A few days later i found out her profile was gone, couldntfindit anywhere aymore. I guess she deactivatedheraccount, and she was the only reason i staydthere, so i deactivated my account too and never came back.....
I get your point of view, but imagine being a teenage girl who gets such a message from a stranger, it could be considered creepy even tho you didn't mean to.
its not a guilty pleasure, but i falled in love on a creepy way, since 2 years ago.
back in 2023 i found on the list of teens in spain, on top of the list i found the profile of a (at that time) 16 yeaar old girl livng in spain. (this was on penpalworld). Saidly i falled in love with her when i saw her profile picture. Penpalworld is a site where you may not search for a dating/mariage partner, and i was so stupid to write her that she was the most beautyfull person ive ever seen. Later i didnt have access to her profile anymore, so i contacted the admin cuz i thought he blocked her, but he didnt knew anything about it. Very late in 2024 i found out that i had a list of persons who blocked me on my profile....... she was atleast 1 of the persons who blocked me. The only way for me to get back in contact with her again was creating a second account. So i did that, and then i found out she hasnt been online for more then 170 days. I contacted her anyway, but this time with a mss that i wanted to be her friend. I didnt show up any love this time. A few days later i found out her profile was gone, couldntfindit anywhere aymore. I guess she deactivatedheraccount, and she was the only reason i staydthere, so i deactivated my account too and never came back.....
I think it’s normal that she blocked you,i would have done the same. Imagine someone totally random writes you that…next time try to get to know the girl first…
yeah yeah, i allready know that. Thats what i realised too when she blocked me; i was far to fast and i wasnt using my brain. I know it and i regret it. Its the same reason why im feeling like am having cement in my stomach.
Aww, I'm sorry to hear it still affects you so much. Maybe you could see it as a learning experience, so next time you'll better know how to approach a girl you like 😊
because of how paranoid im, am afraid finding an other girl of the same type, wouldnt work........
Maybe, but you'll only know if you encounter a similar situation in the future. And then at least you have a better understanding of what you can do than you had last time.
I don't know what it's like in Spain, but in Germany schooling is compulsory. This means that if you simply don't send your children to school, the school will eventually arrange for the police to take them to school. And the youth welfare office could cause stress...
yes, well i dont want to live in germany anyway cuz i dont like the country. Its as simple as that.
neighbours here who moved from mallorca to galicia, are sending there kids to school, but in the first place they werent clean when they went to school. The teacher said to there parents that if they wouldnt take a shower, they would end the police for it. They simply said that if the police would come, they would shoot there heads off. So the police never came 😆
Without any judgement: what’s the problem with having a good hygiene? You know that if you smell bad the people around you will be forced to smell it and it’s not respectful for you and the others. Also: is not taking a shower “what makes you different” like you always say? Seriously,having bad hygiene makes you special?Don’t you think that what makes you different and special are your ideas,your experiences and your brain? And what’s wrong with making your kids take a shower?
yes, i make fun about my own stupidity. if i dont keep a little bit of happyness in the hole story, then i will totally fall apart.
and rose: at that time they didnt even have a shower. The house they bought was a bulding that needed to be repaird, it didnt even have a toiet ore something. Now they allways look like they have taken a shower, allways in de hygiene. Us allmost never.
Why don’t you guys wash yourself?
i hate showers: too hard streams, its mostly hard to get a mix of hot and cold water, and you have to move if you want your hole body to get water, at the moment this is all, but surely there is more reason to hate showers!
I hate baths because they make you marinate in dirty water. I don't want to make human soup, I want to be clean.
Its not food but i also love dutch kids songs (kinderliedjes) so freaking much,hope to find a real life sing buddy someday
Haha nice, I hope you'll get a nice singing bud! 😇
@LandRoverDiscovery2 No, guilty pleasures are defenitely not only about food. Just things you enjoy while feeling a bit guilty about it because you know you "shouldn't do that".