Did you ever love someone who didn't show interest on you?

I wanna say I loved the idea or image of loving that person. She liked me at one point I liked her at a point life did what it does and a bunch of unexpected stuff happens both in my own and her life and later years later we still talk and hang out like we did before but life took a toll on us both yea but her more so and I can’t pursue someone even though I know she wants to be with and I with her but life takes it tolls and she chose whatever she feels she has to to survive which I understand I know her well. It just sucks cause she’s An amazing person with amazing qualities and so much potential but life was harder for her and yea. I can’t force her to love me. I just like to know she ok and she knows when worst comes to worse and she feels like she has no one she can reach out and I’ll be there. Just cause I loved her at a point and always will but can’t stay in love with her. If that makes sense without putting her details out there

My crush would never even wonder that a white 14-y/o girl admires him, this isn’t pain, it’s death already

My crush would never even wonder that a white 14-y/o girl admires him, this isn’t pain, it’s death already

@_MariaShirvani_: Did I understand it right that there are many girls who like that guy? Is that your problem?

Yes, he’s a celebrity and they’re are many other girls who like him, you are right

Yes, he’s a celebrity and they’re are many other girls who like him, you are right

But I think you can still show him that you are interested in him and do like him. And when you think that you did send him that message, you leave him thinking about it and let him choose. Then you did your task and at least tried to near yourself to him. Then you would not repend it later that you did nothing, you know?

I do understand, but how do I talk to him, he’s a celebrity, I live in Denmark, he lives in Korea?

I do understand, but how do I talk to him, he’s a celebrity, I live in Denmark, he lives in Korea?

AAAAAAhhhhhhhhh sorry I didn't read that he is a celebrity! Okay, that's difficult of course. But... you have to know that it's....another kind of love. You know, there are types of love which have differences, like: to your family, to your friends, to your partner, the love children have to their toys, and to a celebrity. As a fan, you don't really know that celebrity in his real life. I mean, I know that feeling very well! But, if a fan gets together with a celebrity, you would see that the reality isn't the same as you see in media. Of course, you should dream in your life, but we have to be realistic too and calculate the chances. In your case, the chance that you come together with that celebrity. I don't want to seem pessimistic! But I believe you would find a person in your life, who you love like you love that celebrity, or even love more! And the chance to get together with him will be much higher

It’s okay. But I have heard that this isn’t love, it is obsession. I don’t talk to that person about my personal life anymore. I don’t know if I’ll ever like anyone, because love for me is a sick feeling, and I’d rather die than make a fool out of myself again

It’s okay. But I have heard that this isn’t love, it is obsession. I don’t talk to that person about my personal life anymore. I don’t know if I’ll ever like anyone, because love for me is a sick feeling, and I’d rather die than make a fool out of myself again

You don’t talk to that person about my personal life anymore? What do you mean with that?
It's surprises me how same your thinking is with mine in the past. For me it was pain when I loved someone in school time. Because I was so shy and was like: nobody would love me back. That's why I distanced myself from those guys. But the last time when I liked someone, I finally tried to near myself to him and I guess I managed to show him my feeling (I hope).
To sum it up: Love is a sick feeling, I you distance yourself from your crush. It makes you sad. But if you give it a chance, you can win! Of course not everytime, sometimes its possible that your crush breaks your heart. But its life, and that kind of feeling is part of it. But at least you tried something and can be proud.
I am telling you my experience from that topic 🙂

I talked to my friend about that, and I regret that

I talked to my friend about that, and I regret that

If you want to talk more detailed about that, you can write

There aren’t any more details, I just think it would make sense to say that whenever I see him with other girls, I don’t burst into anger. It wouldn’t make sense. I justify it, thinking that they would have more chances. This love is destroying me, but it also made me who I am today. And now I have to resist my tears because I don’t want my makeup to leak

There aren’t any more details, I just think it would make sense to say that whenever I see him with other girls, I don’t burst into anger. It wouldn’t make sense. I justify it, thinking that they would have more chances. This love is destroying me, but it also made me who I am today. And now I have to resist my tears because I don’t want my makeup to leak

Oh no, I hope you will feel better soon. Don't torture yourself so much. You are so young, don't think too much. I believe your feelings will get weaker soon

It’s okay. It daytime I cry, but everything goes back to normal when I go to sleep. Maybe that’s why lately I get so excited to go take a nap) I really helps in any problem

Yes a boy from my school, my age.

I like all love stories under this topic.These stories are so romantic.😍