What is your opinion on this?
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Okey i think this is an interesting topic. So personally, i don‘t want to meet my future partner online, and i don‘t date yet, but i know that it works really good for some people. For example, my parents met on a dating site and they are happily married for around 18 years. I‘ve never in my life seen them fighting. So i guess it‘s possible to make it work.
What is your opinion on this?
No!
you mean ldr? naaaaa no. if i must do it, it'll be troublesome. but if you had no time to seek partner, you busy with life, i think it'll open vaster opportunity. but yea, lot of people in dating apps faking their true quality, so it's better to meet in person, like in community, school, gatherings, etc.
I think it works well for the initial phase of meeting people. Getting to talk to a little, seeing if your values align and weeding out the worst people who carry an assortment of red flags. Less risk, if you aren't in the same physical space. Talking about big future plans, like if there's going to be children, and if so, how many and when, do you want to have pets, where do you want to live, what kind of life you want etc. to make sure you are compatible in big things. Then meeting in real life to see if there's chemistry when you already know the relationship isn't headed toward an inevitable end because you can't agree on important life decisions or values are too different. =)
ı think people doesnt show their real face in apps like tinder.. Because people who afraid being rejected willy-nilly create a fake persona
dumb to fake it and shows a person isn't ready for relationship, I think. Online or real world, honesty is the most important thing
There's no reason why the beginning of a romantic relationship can't be online. The beginning is about discussions and getting to know one another anyways, so I don't really get why people are so much against online dating. The safety-aspect alone, when it's possible to weed out the worst people without having to risk meeting them face to face. Obviously it has to move to irl at some point if there is to be a true romantic partnership, but there's no reason why it can't start online
Communities can exist online as well as offline
Finding somebody online is perfectly reasonable. When you choose somebody online you're basing it off of physical attraction, which is what you're initially doing out in the real world also anyways.
The key thing is to get to meeting in person quickly so you can determine real compatibility and weed out the red flags. People can put on a good show online, but personality is harder to fake in person.
The key thing is to get to meeting in person quickly so you can determine real compatibility and weed out the red flags. People can put on a good show online, but personality is harder to fake in person.
The beginning part of any relationship is weeding out red flags anyways. Some of that can be done online, but obviously there are people who manage to hide their true face online but not offline. But, there are also people who can hide their true face for years offline too and meeting that person quickly irl is not necessarily the solution.
I think speed is not the question here. Holding a good online presence for long can weed out the bad ones too. Part of the testing is to put them in situations where their moral mettle is measured. Like saying no and seeing how the other person reacts.
I wouldn't rush the irl meeting, but once you've learned all you can online and you can't see red flags, then it's time for that. And obviously, even if you've known someone online for a long time, the first meeting should be in a public place.