What is a turn off in men ?

Give your candid opinions on things guys do that you absolutely hate as a woman.

white socks in sandals, and that gurgling sound in the bathroom in the morning🤮🤮🤢🤢🤮🤢🤮🤢🤮🤢

If guys talk super agressive and u feel super intimidated or they talk with his friends super different than how he talks with u or in other groups like he is almost completely different only bc he wants to act super cool. 😬🙄🙄

If guys talk super agressive and u feel super intimidated or they talk with his friends super different than how he talks with u or in other groups like he is almost completely different only bc he wants to act super cool. 😬🙄🙄

Young lady, the type of behaviour you describe is rated as "requires vigilance" on the "violentomètre", a tool used in France and Canada to warn youth about psychological risks existing in relationships. FYI

I think bottling up your feelings with your partner is a very bad thing to do, not only because it's harmful to the person who does it, but also because it's like saying you don't trust your partner. But that only counts in romantic relationships, because as much as I want to be there for my friends, it's still acceptable that they don't trust others with their feelings. I just think trust is very important in all relationships, not just romantic ones. And it goes both ways too, if I'm not trusted I won't trust as much as I could, and if I'm trusted then I'll also trust you.

Too much gossip and a lack of respect also is pretty annoying, I understand that nobody's perfect but there's a line you can't cross. And manipulative behaviour is a big no-no for all women, it's just that some take longer to recognize those behaviours because it can be subtle sometimes.

📸️ white socks in sandals, and that gurgling sound in the bathroom in the morning🤮🤮🤢🤢🤮🤢🤮🤢🤮🤢

Haha, I didn't even know that was a thing lol

Young lady, the type of behaviour you describe is rated as "requires vigilance" on the "violentomètre", a tool used in France and Canada to warn youth about psychological risks existing in relationships. FYI

Mercciii beaucoup @-Phil-!! 🙏😊 I never heard of that violentomètre before but i will google it later!! I dont know if we have that in my country too. 🙄🙄 But i think it is also a feeling like if u feel that smt is wrong or that u feel unsure abt it then maybe u have to be really careful before u get a relationship. So sometimes it is really the best to know how u feel even if maybe u cant explain the feeling completely.

That they forget how hard it is to be a mother,take it for granted

Can i ask what about the other way around? And what you think you hate that way? Like for example if somebody is feeling insecure and shy maybe is turn off or if you dont like some things from looks or other things??

Narcissists i dont like

Give your candid opinions on things guys do that you absolutely hate as a woman.

When they think life is easy for women and very difficult for them. When they (all people, in general) name feminism as "Propaganda."

I don't usually like generalisation but I can say that this goes for both men and women... I'm not going to say what turns me off but what turns me on: show up, show that you care, show interest, apologise, make your partner your priority, don't let a stupid argument ruin everything, laugh, spend time together. It really is that simple!

teeth that haven't been brushed for weeks and where you can scrape the dirt off🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮

teeth that haven't been brushed for weeks and where you can scrape the dirt off🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮

that's usually a sign of a health problem. In general any sign of not being able to take care of oneself is

Personally, I think lack of empathy is a very big turn-off in anyone

1. narcissistic, and other personality disorder.

2. married man who still available for a fling (imo, cheater)

3. a guy whose body is out of shape, because for me, if they care about their body, it means they also care about their health, their happiness, they needs, ambition etc. basically they know what to do in their life.

4. a guy who chase & flirt over many women in the same time.

5. as sapiosexual, dumb guy turn me off. the sexiest and most attractive part of a man is their high-quality brains.

A truly intelligent man will naturally have good attitudes, behavior, personality, and manners. they have logical and common sense when it comes to worst scenario.

And this is crucial, never ignore this quality. it'll be things that brings you happiness & harmonious in relationships.

6. A man who doesn't know the direction of his life, what he wants. Basically, he hasn't finished with his past (trauma, inner child, etc) and doesn't know himself.

7. patriarchy, misogynistic, incel man.

8. pervert & lustful man.

1. narcissistic, and other personality disorder.

2. married man who still available for a fling (imo, cheater)

3. a guy whose body is out of shape, because for me, if they care about their body, it means they also care about their health, their happiness, they needs, ambition etc. basically they know what to do in their life.

4. a guy who chase & flirt over many women in the same time.

5. as sapiosexual, dumb guy turn me off. the sexiest and most attractive part of a man is their high-quality brains.

A truly intelligent man will naturally have good attitudes, behavior, personality, and manners. they have logical and common sense when it comes to worst scenario.

And this is crucial, never ignore this quality. it'll be things that brings you happiness & harmonious in relationships.

6. A man who doesn't know the direction of his life, what he wants. Basically, he hasn't finished with his past (trauma, inner child, etc) and doesn't know himself.

7. patriarchy, misogynistic, incel man.

8. pervert & lustful man.

I agreee 100% with youuu!! And i think a man who is not like that should be considered just an average, but unfortunately it's not. We need to normalize a guy who lacks all that disgusting properties.

I agreee 100% with youuu!! And i think a man who is not like that should be considered just an average, but unfortunately it's not. We need to normalize a guy who lacks all that disgusting properties.

can be said i'm a lover instead of man hater, i believe they can do much better than the bare minimum as long as they believe in themselves, knows how much capable they're to be a good person and to shower their lover. cause me, i would do everything for the love of my life, so the logic why would i settle for less?

keanu once said "If you're a lover, you gotta be a fighter. Because if you don't fight for your love, what kind of love do you have?"

he's a man of culture indeed. that's why I don't understand why men these days become so upset over women who believe they can do better? Don't men always want women who believe in them? So if he feels like he can't, what else is there to believe in?

i used to wait a man for more than 5 years only for him to dive in my depth, to understand all of my layers (cause i already knew him, and i don't want to judge easily and jump to conclusions as if he's incapable). but guess what? he remains the same.

So, based on all my experience, it's better to filter immediately, rather than wait. It's okay, don't listen to manchild who says you have to wait, you have to do this and that first to get what you want.

listen, i met a guy, he said "a true gentlemen don't need to be taught, to be lecture, told what you want. He will observe, pay attention to the smallest detail, he will remember, he will adapt to you, he will risk it all. if you're better than him, he'll use you as motivation to be a better man instead of forcing you to go down his level.

never settle for less only to get the love. love yourself, make the most of your life, buy all the stuff you want, make yourself happy. then, I'm sure man with quality who knows your worth, value, and respect you will comes to you.

Because of what? Love is supposed to make you happier than before, not extinguish your spark. If it extinguishes your spark, it's clear he's not for you."