Relationships & Scamming!

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My first outgoing contact with a potential penfriend won me an accusation of being a scammer. Okay...people must be careful. But, the accusation of being a scammer came at me right after I mentioned that I never married and haven't had a relationship for around 30 years. I fail to see why that answer won me the title of scammer. Can anybody throw light on this, for me? I'd only just arrived and was amazed at the quality and features of this place, to be honest, but I'm no scammer!

not so long ago, I texted a woman (a bit younger then you I think) from the UK. She did not want to believe my age. Neither did she understand that I am my life long homeschooled. She asked me "if you are a teenager, how come you being on a penpal site instead of hanging out with your friends?" she did not want to understand that literally I don't really have any friends in real life.

No, I cannot throw light on it. It's strange, very strange. Some people just don't know how to use there minds/brains.

And those are the people you rather avoid.

My first outgoing contact with a potential penfriend won me an accusation of being a scammer. Okay...people must be careful. But, the accusation of being a scammer came at me right after I mentioned that I never married and haven't had a relationship for around 30 years. I fail to see why that answer won me the title of scammer. Can anybody throw light on this, for me? I'd only just arrived and was amazed at the quality and features of this place, to be honest, but I'm no scammer!

If that person says that it is not fair so i think just block that person. And maybe just chat with others who are nicer.

My first outgoing contact with a potential penfriend won me an accusation of being a scammer. Okay...people must be careful. But, the accusation of being a scammer came at me right after I mentioned that I never married and haven't had a relationship for around 30 years. I fail to see why that answer won me the title of scammer. Can anybody throw light on this, for me? I'd only just arrived and was amazed at the quality and features of this place, to be honest, but I'm no scammer!

@IanHaines, Don't take this seriously! Your potential penfriend might have some bad experience in the past and wanted to be safe. You just enjoy talking with other people here, there are lot of people here!

Thank you, to those who replied. It has not been enough to spoil my enjoyment at being here. This appears to be quite a unique penfriending site. I look forward to spending far more time, here.

I hope that you also maybe like the forum. Bc we have a LOTTTTT of nice forums also super serious or nice or funny. Like for example interviews and from PPG University that @H_E_A_R_T posted. But i have not time now but i can post links later after dinner if you want that. 🙂

I'm just settling in...I'll do some exploring!

2weeks ago i was texting a women and she says,stop sending me i know you are @LandRoverDiscovery2 huh then i wrote @LandRoverDiscovery2 and ask him and he say to here that im not him hahaha soletiles real strange people here

I'd message the person again, but that might be construed as stalking, or harassment!

I'm just settling in...I'll do some exploring!

I hope that you have a very nice time and there are a lot of nice ppl to chat with so i hope that may be good for you too!!! 🙂

I hope that you have a very nice time and there are a lot of nice ppl to chat with so i hope that may be good for you too!!! 🙂

There are certainly a lot of nice people...responsive, too, on this forum. Many thanks, for being there.