need advice

ok so i need advice on if this boy actually likes me:

Back in October, i fell victim of this boy and his friends telling me he "liked me" but i later found out it was a joke to make fun of me ( i have severe ADHD and struggle reading social cues) I was crushed because this boy knew I was really struggling at the time and i still do struggle.
Fast forward into the day before winter break he comes up and asks me to come sit with him so we can "talk", I agreed and he looked me in the eyes and said "Elizabeth I'm really sorry. I should have never led you on like that and to be honest, the only reason I played along with all of it was so my friends wouldn't make fun of me. I'll never do anything like that again because I saw the pain that I caused you and honestly that made me feel worse because you are so kind and always thinking of other people. I promise this will never happen again. Can we be friends?"
I just said "ok" and watched the rest of the pep rally with him. The bell rang and I was just worried about getting out to my car asap.
Fast Forward Into January: I find out he's in my second hour class and mumble to myself "oh dear" and find my seat. The bell is about to ring and everyone is standing, including me. I walk over to throw something away and he immedetly says "Elizabeth! what's up" i just reply with "hey how are you" and we just continue talking and when the bell rings im trying to head to my 3rd hour. He rushes up behind me and says "I hope you have a good day" and i just say "thanks" and dab him up. From that day he has came over to me in class and dabs me up, asks how im doing and asks if I need help with anything. He's also started to walk in the halls with me and keeps looking over at me and my table during lunch (Me and my friends sit at the table next to him and he sits with his football friends).Then after lunch everyday, he always tries to walk with me and he always defends me. Im wondering if this is all an act or if he really cares about me?

I can not give an advice!

What I would like to tell you is: listen to your gut feeling. The way you describe it, it sounds like he's actually interested in how you're doing and whether you're coping. He cares about you like a friend.

Stitchyyyy @allstarcheer!!! i cant give you good advice bc i would also have NOOO idea what to do. But i do want to stay that it was STUPID of them to make fun of you bc you are super nice. 🤗🥰🥰 I got to know you with your interview and with chatting and you are always super kind to me and they are idiots that they dont know that they should be LUCKKYY if you would want to be friends with them. 🏆🥇

I have no idea what you can do about the guy and if he means it or not. The only thing i want the most is that you are not hurt again bc that is NOTTT fair. Maybe others from the SUPER GIRLLL ARMYYY 💪💪 like @Roseeeee, @Txya, @-Kiki- and @Mare24 can give advices. 🌈🌞🌈

Stitchyyyy @allstarcheer!!! i cant give you good advice bc i would also have NOOO idea what to do. But i do want to stay that it was STUPID of them to make fun of you bc you are super nice. 🤗🥰🥰 I got to know you with your interview and with chatting and you are always super kind to me and they are idiots that they dont know that they should be LUCKKYY if you would want to be friends with them. 🏆🥇

I have no idea what you can do about the guy and if he means it or not. The only thing i want the most is that you are not hurt again bc that is NOTTT fair. Maybe others from the SUPER GIRLLL ARMYYY 💪💪 like @Roseeeee, @Txya, @-Kiki- and @Mare24 can give advices. 🌈🌞🌈

awww your so sweet can i join the army?

@allstarcheer its difficult to give you advice on that matter. But always be carefull . You can enjoy the talks but like @kreativplus says listen to your gut feeling but be carrefull . But also you can enjoy it. And joking on like somebody is not a joke i dont like it they didt that to you.... big hugg from me

@allstarcheer its difficult to give you advice on that matter. But always be carefull . You can enjoy the talks but like @kreativplus says listen to your gut feeling but be carrefull . But also you can enjoy it. And joking on like somebody is not a joke i dont like it they didt that to you.... big hugg from me

thank you! as of today, if he says something and i get offended, he always apologizes, he´s very protective over me which i love

awww your so sweet can i join the army?

Yes of course!!! But we are the only army that DOES NOTTT fight but we do only nice things like TALKINGGG A LOTTT!! 😛

thank you! as of today, if he says something and i get offended, he always apologizes, he´s very protective over me which i love

My mom said that if you want to test and he buys something for you even if it is super small like an ice cream than you know it is real because she said guys dont make jokes with their money!! 😛 So maybe that is a good tip. And if it is REAL how he does and protects you and it is nice i think it is: 🥰🥰🥰!!!!!

I kinda think it's a hard one, because he suddenly acted differently. Like the others said before: trust your gut feeling. That's the most important. If you don't trust it, shut him off. If you're still unsure, you could try to ask him about it sometime when you're alone with him. Or ask your friends at school, they know him better than we do.

I'm a rather resentful person when it comes to people who've hurt me or people I care about. In your place I would probably avoid him as much as I can, but I know that's not what I should do. So I can say whatever I want, but I would definitely not give good advice.

I suggest that you check out these videos by Psych2go :

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h4YWG5t7WL0 (Number ten looks like what you've described, but if it's the only sign, it might not mean anything)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f8e-hYTtmlQ

Another solution would be to tell him about your concerns, and try to talk about it together(even if I don't recommend it that much, it's not the best way to find out things since some people are really good liars). If he's being fake, you should notice by an inconsistency in his words or if he hesitates a lot before answering.

Keep in mind that reading people is never easy, and it's normal to be confused by certain people. It's not because a person had a change of mind that they are necessarily trying to trick you or that they are a bad person. Actually, I believe it's more likely that the person you're talking about truly regrets what he's done and is trying to repair his mistake. In any case, be careful and try to figure out his intentions before giving him too much trust.