Hello everybody πββοΈ
This message what i want to write is not so easy. So i hope that everybody understands it and that people are respectfully about it. ππ Sorry if it is long. If it is too long: you can of course skip this forum it is ok. π
I chatted with @Annika2007 yesterday and we talked about the forum we made yesterday about important things in life. And we also made the day before yesterday a forum about funny and embarrassing things. π π And one thing Annika said in the forum is SOOOO true and I dont think other people understand it enough.
She wrote in the forum that she finds sometimes difficulties with social interactions in REAL life. And I have that too!!! And I know several others here on PPG who have that too. But HERE everybody is welcome. And the forum is nice where we can talk about funny things or anything you want. It is good because it is fun. And for me and i hope the other persons too it ALSO helps in real life. What i say on the forum i dont say in real life in the same way. Here i think i can say most things and i try also a little bit to be the same in real life. That works a little bit maybe 10 % better than before PPG or sometimes a bit more or less. But it HELPS. And I REALLY hope others too. So maybe also long forums about silly things are not so bad right!!!! ππ They are fun for who are in the forum and they can help too in other ways.
In the week I spend sometimes time on PPG in the afternoon, but mostly only in the evening to write back messages with friends or to post on the forum. And YES I also have friends in real life. But some others not so many. So it is ok right? I think BOTH online and real friends are important and good. And everybody can say for themselves what is important for them and nobody can judge it. If they like it online like this: cool!!! And others maybe more in real life: also cool!! Nobody should judge that even when it has happened before here.
With the forum we try to write different types of forums. Sometimes silly, serious, interviews, games or other ones. It costs a lot of time, but i DONT spend time on tiktok, instagram, video games or a lot of other online things. I think everybody can choose what they like online. But when we make a lot of effort or people try to make it nice, two things are disturbing it. And they are NOT nice.
Sometimes it is written like "Do you have a life outside PPG?" when you made a LOT of effort to make a forum nice for everybody. And that is the only thing that person ever writes in it. Or that we have "too much time to write long comments". That is NOT nice of course too. And it has happened in past several times. I just ignore it almost always and I am happy most do, but it is not respectfull and i dont know if that is just to bully or to troll or both. If you dont like a forum: maybe read another forum. And if you write: maybe make it nice for others and think about that first.
I also saw that with a politic person forum today (like many politics forums): some people dont write REALLY respectfully (even if they think they do!!) and it gets out of the hand at least for some other people. In those forums most are adults!! And if we write a fun forum just to have a fun time, sometimes again adults write things i said above. I am happy that most adults are really nice in those forums and they make the forum a really nice place!!!! πΈπΈπΈπΈ They are PPG stars!!! βββ But there are sometimes exceptions. And in the politics forums sometimes people write about the fun forums like it is nothing compared to the politics forums. At least it looks like that. THAT is NOT nice.
I hope that people dont reply immediately, but maybe think first a bit more about it. And maybe:
β‘οΈ If somebody makes a forum: be nice and respectfull the way that person wrote the forum.
β‘οΈ If you comment about another person or forum: what you write is it nice?
Of course people can also discuss seriously about things and i know that adults discuss differently sometimes about important things. But if you do that it should not get out of the hand or people say wrong things about other people or forums or that it hurts others.
π₯° Thank you for understanding it and being nice so EVERYBODY has a nice time on the forum. π₯°
A very NICE thing that happens on the forum is that several new members are active on the forum now and even make new forums (like Stitchyyy did and the person who made the rugby forum)!!! They get 100 medals for it!! π₯π₯π₯π₯ And for everybody who writes in the forum in a nice way: you get 100 hearts: β€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈ
