Yendi

I'm a 46-year-old female, and I live in United States .

I speak English

Current level: Casual

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• Favourite books/authors/films

  I love fantasy anything. Books, movies, video games. I don't have a favorite title and I'm not real big on movies unless they are anime and even then it depends. I guess if I had to name something it would be Fellowship of the Ring movie and Castlevania the animated series on Netflix.

• Cities and countries I have visited

  I've only traveled once to Italy when I was in high school. I went with my dad to see his family. I can't speak nor understand the language so it was a rough 2 weeks. Besides that, I've only traveled within the US.

• I'm an expert at...

  Not finishing what I started. I have a habit of starting projects and losing interest in them when it gets too hard.

• Making the world a better place

  Get rid of News and Social Media. You can't trust any main news stations or online news sites because they don't tell the truth, they only tell you what they think will sell stories. Twitter is a cesspool, a cancer to the internet.

• I always enjoy talking about...

  anything as long as it's a respectful conversation. There are some things I refuse to talk about because they are hot topic items that usually start a fight. I won't talk about Politics, Sexuality, and Religion. Everyone has their truths about these topics and it's too easy to get into your feelings when talking about them so it's best to just avoid them until you're comfortable with a person.

• 10 years from now

  Hopefully I'll be alive and in good health. I don't make plans for the future because a lot of shit can happen that can shatter them so what's the point. I worry about making it from day to day and week to week.

• My opinion on human nature

  Oh boy, these are some weird questions for a chat site. There are too many factors that com into play, that shapes a person's nature. Some people are just born bad. Their brains are just wired different and they are missing something that prevents them from viewing another person with empathy or compassion. There has been many serial killers who grew up in good families yet they still killed people as if they were rats with no remorse. I also think humans are taught as children to hate and not trust others. I could go on but you get the idea.

• As a child, I wish...

  I feel like I'm in therapy answering these questions. I have lots of regrets that I'd like to change from my childhood. I was bullied in school so I missed out on forming connections with people. I wish I could have been home schooled. That way I wouldn't have self esteem issues and maybe would be able to form better connections with people.

• Life regrets

  LOL!! I'm loving these questions. I feel like I'm writing a memoir. I've got a lot of regrets, who doesn't? I'm 42 years old, single woman living with her parents. My life has been good so far, don't get me wrong. I'm healthy and I have enough in my life that I'm comfortable but stuff has happened in my past that if I could change them I would.

• A career without obstacles

  I think maybe working in an office. I like to work alone and I like working on a computer. I wouldn't mind working in a little cubicle typing all day as long as I was left alone and not micromanaged. I also like working outside in nature surroundings so I wouldn't mind a career doing that either. Maybe a nature photographer or ranger.

• My feeling about the future

  If I listen to the news and read the crap on Social Media I get a very negative feeling about the future because everyone is making it sound like the plague is here, people are ready to attack you on sight because they don't like the color of your skin, and money and resources will dry up because nobody is working to put money in the economy. It's hard to feel good about life when all that is in your face 24/7. Now, if I sit on my back porch with a cool drink, reading or watching a tv show on my tablet then yeah, I'm optimistic.

• Improving the school system

  Reading, writing and basic math is all kids need to learn in grade school. Middle school they should be given classes on the careers they want to do. They should be allowed to pick which career they want to try each semester. Then when they reach High School they stick with that career so that when they graduate and go to college they have a better understanding. Also it will give the ones who can't go to college a chance to make it when looking for a job.

• My proudest accomplishments

  I haven't killed anyone while working retail for 16+ years.

• My interests in other cultures

  Everything. I love learning about new things, understanding how people live their lives outside the bubble that is my state. What you see on TV and online is different from learning about it directly from people living it.

• A personal challenge

  Having to call the vet to put my pets to sleep. So far I've had to do it for 2 dogs and 2 cats and I was an emotional wreck for two weeks for each one. My pets are family and it's crazy how emotionally attached I get to them. I hate the pain that comes with losing them but I can't see going through life without owning a cat or dog.

• Living abroad for one year

  I would like to visit Ireland.

• Personal skills

  I have no idea.

• Childhood pleasures

  I blocked out my childhood so I've no idea what I liked. It would be easier for me to tell you what I hated.

• I recently learnt...

  That this site likes to ask deep and personal questions.

• I'm excited about...

  Nothing. Wow, these questions really like to point out how dull a person is.

• Something uncommon about me

  *sigh* I'm going to start making stuff up for these questions because the truth is making me sound like a wallflower. Really, there isn't anything I can think of that makes me unique.

• It was better before

  because they didn't have Social Media. News and journalism was more truthful with their reporting.

• It is better now

  Depends on your outlook and what you considerer is an improvement. Everything new isn't an improvement.

• My parents and me

  I'm old fashioned like them so there really isn't much difference between the way we think.

• I wish people knew more about...

  I'm going to pass this question because I don't know how to answer it.

• I feel concerned about...

  The reason for these questions. I wish dating sites would ask questions like this, that way finding a perfect match would be easier.

• A trick or piece of advice

  About what? I need a topic before I can give advice.

• Over or underrated

  So many things but I can't think of them right now.

• Something to tell the world!

  What is there to say that I haven't already said in the above 50 questions? If I tell you everything then what's the point in talking to me?