HoleToAUniverse

I'm a 17-year-old female, and I live in Netherlands .

I speak English, Dutch

Current level: New Member

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• Personal skills

  I don't know if this is something most people DON'T have, but it's certainly something that not everyone has; I am legit the therapist friend. I'm really good at giving advice (in person, sadly not so good over text) and at listening to people vent. I've also been told that my presence/aura(?) is very calm, which also calms them 🙂

• Cities and countries I have visited

  I've been to the north and north-west of Germany (Hamburg, Emden, Leer & Weener)
  I've been to "France" (Disneyland) and was actually going to Paris, but then covid said no... :')
  I've been to Spain (Valencia)

• My parents and me

  My parents always try to immediately solve things, which often causes fights between me and them. I'm more of a "slow procedure"-person. I don't really immediately want a solution, I just want to tell them what's going on with my life or something I've been struggling with.
  Also, my dad is kind of abusive (mentally/emotionally) and manipulative. This isn't just my view because of him being my dad and me being a mid-puberty teen, a lot of my friends who've already gone through puberty or just from healthy households have also told me so before I realised any of it.
  So there's definitely some households problems, but I just try to look past that and hang out with my friends more than being at home and getting into another possible fight.