LOl its not like you have to wait ... its not like they come to you. It is a process of weeks, months and years. You have to go out in chat, message people about whatever you would like to disguss.. don't wait, write!
Sorry to hear that it may take years before i find a penpal. I am looking for someone in Spain to practise my Spanish with.
But i will parttake in the forum and the chat and and enjoy myself. But it is not what wanted.