1️⃣ How many siblings do you have? Do you look like each other and do you get along well or not? And if you do not have siblings: would you like to have them?
I have three siblings, and I’m the oldest child 😀
We pretty much look alike but each one of us has special traits. So we’re not the type of siblings that you would call "photocopy’s" 😂😂 but I guess we all have the same family resemblance. We do get along well, even if there are some arguments sometimes (It’s an universal thing among siblings 😉)
2️⃣ Do you think your life would be really different without your siblings (or if you dont have any: WITH siblings)?
Of course ! The house would be silent… Too silent. And I would be sooo bored… No one to share my feelings, my games or my thoughts with. My parents always do, but you know, I feel that sometimes when you share something, your sibling is sometimes more likely to understand it than your parents because you may have a similar mentality.
3️⃣ What kind of things do you still do together? And can you trust your siblings with ALL your secrets (like crushes or other things that are important)?
No, not all of them though 😅 the smaller ones are not good at keeping secrets. I know it's normal, that they're a bit younger, but I've experienced some pretty unusual situations like this.
Story time : One day I went out with my younger sister, and we bought ourselves stuffed sweet crepes. Since I was fasting I couldn’t eat my crepe, so I told her that I’ll keep my crepe for the evening, and that she shouldn’t tell anyone and that nobody should see it. (I would be so ashamed to eat something so delicious in front of them while they watched me 😭). When we arrived home, my mother and my brother were outside enjoying the sun but they would see us entering with the crepe. Instead of keeping it discreet, my sister just shouted "OHH NO! THEY ARE HERE! HOW ARE YOU GONNA HIDE YOUR CREPE NOW?" 😭😭😭 And so my crepe was discovered! Fortunately no one actually cared that I brought a crepe for myself, even if I wish I could have bought more for everyone 😅 but HEY… SECRETS… 🤫
4️⃣ Do you have any friends who are almost like siblings for you?
I think the closest to my siblings are definitely my cousins. Family-wise, we share the same blood from our grandparents. Relation-wise. They are LOVELY. ❤️ Never had any people in my life behave like siblings as much as my cousins do.
5️⃣ Did your siblings or your best friend who is like a sibling ever support you in a way that nobody else could not even your parents?
Hmm, not that much. Except for my diet. I have a cousin the same age as me, who goes to the gym very regularly. He always encouraged me during my diet, especially in difficult times when I felt sad or confused about it (sometimes it’s difficult to lose weight). I want to thank him sincerely. ❤️
6️⃣ What are your arguments abt? Really big things or only smaller things?
Ohh it’s always about stupid things… Not really a big deal, that’s why I hate arguing. We’re wasting our time and energy on something that doesn’t worth it.
7️⃣ Do your parents treat you and your siblings the same or not really? What do you think abt it?
Objectively, you can’t treat anyone the same way, because each one of us is different and have different needs Equity is not the same as equality. Of course we’re all treated the same way about food, clothes, etc… My parents always made sure that we do. But sometimes, according to your needs, your parents may treat you or one of your siblings differently.
For example, my parents used to pay some extra lessons for me when I needed help for a subject, because I had no older sibling to help me. But, since my siblings had me to help them and that I could understand things pretty well, I was able to help them without them needing the help of an extra teacher.
And to me, that’s totally fair.
8️⃣ When is the last time that you did smt really nice for your sibling? What did you do?
I bought a gift for my sister’s birthday ☺️❤️
9️⃣ When was the last time that it was the other way around and what happened?
It’s always the small gestures that make me happy. So whenever my siblings comes back from the store and get something for me like a drink, a cookie, etc… I’m always happy 😊
🔟 Do you maybe have a question abt siblings that i should add to the list?
In which domain do you help your siblings the most ? (Study, sport, DIY crafts, etc…) ? And in which domain do your siblings help YOU the most ?
➡️ New question from Vigga @Vixie: If you could choose to have more or less siblings would you? It could also be changing their gender or age!
No I’m fine with my siblings ❤️
➡️ New question from Nidhi @Nishu: Do you and your siblings discuss about study or study together????
We don’t study together because we’re not the same year, nor do we prefer the same subjects. But when one of us needs help, we still can help ourselves out.
Thnxxx very much anybody who likes to answer the questions or reads this forum!! 🙏🙏😊😇
Thank YOU, Yue !!