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Most of my peers have had lovers by this time, but I haven't. it worries me.Should I be worried?It's not that I don't have anyone in my life right now. If it happens in the future, I'm afraid I'll falter because it's never happened before. What do you think?

In my opinion I don't think you should be worried. I was 21 before I had a lover myself. But then again I ran with a crowd that was rather shy so very few of us did much dating so our chances of having lovers were much lower.

I wouldn't get a lover just so you've had one, but if it is something you're interested in doing I'd think about what sort of relationship you'd like to have and then work towards that. The one thing I would have told my younger self is that I should ask more women my age out. I would also have told myself that dating is just having fun with someone and getting to know someone more. It allowed you to find out if you're mutually attracted to each other and if your ideas about relationships matched closely enough to move towards a more intense relationship.

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To any who is dumb enough to discuss your private life in public forums or anything public! Then again...it's social media. People just take even their dirty laundry here...my God! I'm can only shake my head in disbelief! Ever heard of a therapist? Sex Counselor? No? May be you should. And these days they Don't call sexual physical couple lovers. It's called friends with benefits lol or ahook up. Young today Don't date. They just come right to the point. If you know what I mean.🙂🙂 But Turkey? Mo wonder you are sexually frustrated. And 62 yet old? Out of your mind. There...my two cents? Move to more progress I've country. That should help.

Lisbon Porto.. You realize that it's 2021 now?
Times change, and a lot of subjects are taking out of the taboo closet.

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To any who is dumb enough to discuss your private life in public forums or anything public! Then again...it's social media. People just take even their dirty laundry here...my God! I'm can only shake my head in disbelief! Ever heard of a therapist? Sex Counselor? No? May be you should. And these days they Don't call sexual physical couple lovers. It's called friends with benefits lol or ahook up. Young today Don't date. They just come right to the point. If you know what I mean.🙂🙂 But Turkey? Mo wonder you are sexually frustrated. And 62 yet old? Out of your mind. There...my two cents? Move to more progress I've country. That should help.

May I suggest ignoring a question if it's not of your taste next time, instead of belittling OP? They asked their question kindly and discreetly. As this is an international community, I believe OP wanted an input from a different perspective, culture, country, or demographic, and they are free to do so. This website is literally centered around this concept of inclusivity. Criticism is only useful when it's constructive. Nasty, belittling comments are just... Nasty and belittling. Please reconsider posting comments of such nature in the future, and do not make fun of someone's identity or country. There's a handful of ways you could have shared your opinion kindly. This is not one of them. Thank you.

grisgotik, I wouldn't worry about trying to keep up with people around you when it comes to this matter. Your individuality is more important, and you will find that doing things at your own pace will benefit you in the long run; relationships of all kinds require time and patience. Do what you feel is right without comparing yourself with your peers, good things will come for sure! 😊

Shocking and shameless
To any who is dumb enough to discuss your private life in public forums or anything public! Then again...it's social media. People just take even their dirty laundry here...my God! I'm can only shake my head in disbelief! Ever heard of a therapist? Sex Counselor? No? May be you should. And these days they Don't call sexual physical couple lovers. It's called friends with benefits lol or ahook up. Young today Don't date. They just come right to the point. If you know what I mean.🙂🙂 But Turkey? Mo wonder you are sexually frustrated. And 62 yet old? Out of your mind. There...my two cents? Move to more progress I've country. That should help.

Shocking and shameless
To any who is dumb enough to discuss your private life in public forums or anything public! Then again...it's social media. People just take even their dirty laundry here...my God! I'm can only shake my head in disbelief! Ever heard of a therapist? Sex Counselor? No? May be you should. And these days they Don't call sexual physical couple lovers. It's called friends with benefits lol or ahook up. Young today Don't date. They just come right to the point. If you know what I mean.🙂🙂 But Turkey? Mo wonder you are sexually frustrated. And 62 yet old? Out of your mind. There...my two cents? Move to more progress I've country. That should help.

May I suggest ignoring a question if it's not of your taste next time, instead of belittling OP? They asked their question kindly and discreetly. As this is an international community, I believe OP wanted an input from a different perspective, culture, country, or demographic, and they are free to do so. This website is literally centered around this concept of inclusivity. Criticism is only useful when it's constructive. Nasty, belittling comments are just... Nasty and belittling. Please reconsider posting comments of such nature in the future, and do not make fun of someone's identity or country. There's a handful of ways you could have shared your opinion kindly. This is not one of them. Thank you.

grisgotik, I wouldn't worry about trying to keep up with people around you when it comes to this matter. Your individuality is more important, and you will find that doing things at your own pace will benefit you in the long run; relationships of all kinds require time and patience. Do what you feel is right without comparing yourself with your peers, good things will come for sure! 😊

I'm an introvert and never met my special one yet just for sitting around at home. I believed finding a soul mate was meant to happen as destiny, but maybe I'm starting to believe it was a fairytale at 36.

I'm an introvert and never met my special one yet just for sitting around at home. I believed finding a soul mate was meant to happen as destiny, but maybe I'm starting to believe it was a fairytale at 36.

Here in the US we are often sold fairytale ideas of love and relationships. Although they happen to some people they are not realistic. I had a friend who was very socially awkward but he eventually met a woman who became his wife at age 40. So it is possible to find someone special later in life.

@Lisbonporto, have you ever heard of something called "manners"? It makes much more sense than your arrogant, rude attitude against her. You are no judge here.

@grisgotic, there is nothing to worry in your case, I think. One may learn lots of things by trial and error method in this life. But love is not one of those things. The more the better does not work in this case. It would make you nothing but a member of broken hearts army marching all around.