Hey! I'm Tom 19 years old male from USA. Take time to get to know me. Looking forward to meeting new people. I will treat you and respect you the way you deserve to be treated and respected.
I'm always listening to music of the 60' 70's and 80's when music was real and actually had a meaning. My favorite group is the Beatles They are the best there is the best there was and the best there ever will be.
I know we never talk about the pain and that’s ok. We don’t need to. There is no point in rehashing all the shit that happened or what you did. How I felt then is very different from how I feel now.
I come from a place of peace, love and forgiveness now. Every now and then I do still think about what you did but I simply let it go. I don’t have room, time, desire or energy to think about the hurt.
You know what you did was fucking horrible. Well time has passed. Days months and I found something. Actually I found quite a few things.
self worth, self love, self respect, forgiveness, kindness, and peace.
For everyone who has recently hurt me you know who you are.
Peace Love and Understanding,“If everyone decided to forgive at least one person who hurt them by the end of the year, the world would be filled with people exchanging hugs and kisses, instead of words and bullets.” ... Live and let live. Accept others for who they truly are.Don't try to change them into someone you want them to be “You must be the change you wish to see in the world A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing.” ... Tell someone that you care about them by complimenting them. It can be a big compliment or a small one. The point is that you share what good you see in them. That will help them develop confidence and a stronger sense of self.People may know you care but are you present with them? It’s best to give your time to those you care about and show them that they matter to you. Go and visit them while you can. This simple act of kindness can go a long way.Show empathy – feel what someone else is feeling. Put yourself in their place. They may need that, and this shows that you understand what they are going through, which can help make them feel better Do you have some skills to offer? Do you have the ability to help out? It doesn’t matter how you can help, just find some way to be of use to someone. You never know how doing so might find its way back to you. Ask how you may be of help, and it just might make someone’s day a lot better.
Learn to forgive, Think about how you can help others,Do something for someone Tears shed for another person are not a sign of weakness. .“Every human walks around with a certain kind of sadness Take time to know yourself Don't make assumptions. ...
Be patient and persistent. ...
In order to get, you have to give. ...
Luck comes from hard work. ...
Be your best at all times. People Want You to Listen, Not to Talk.
Don't spam people with your words of wisdom.
Don't Think or Judge. Just Listen.
If Someone Asks You for Advice:
Understand expectations. Clarify what they want from you. ...
Listen first. ...
Ask questions. ...
Help frame the problem.Choose your friends wisely.
I'm an expert at helping friends in need
Darkness cannot drive darkness Light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate Love can do that.”“No one is born hating another person because of the colour of his skin, or his background, or his religion. People must learn to hate, and if they can learn to hate, they can be taught to love, for love comes more naturally to the human heart than its opposite.”Misunderstanding arising from ignorance breeds fear, and fear remains the greatest enemy of peace.”Why is it that, as a culture, we are more comfortable seeing two men holding guns than holding hands?”“In the practice of tolerance, one’s enemy is the best teacher.”Attacking people with disabilities is the lowest display of power I can think of.”Don’t hate what you don’t understand.”You cannot hate other people without hating yourself.”"Where there is love there is life.”
The World was better before. The music in the past was a lot better
This world is not a better place The world today is in utter chaos. Just look around yourself. Pollution levels are higher than ever, junk food consumption is staggeringly high. reproductive life span is decreasing, the divide between the rich and the poor is at its deepest, human trafficking has increased, illegal child labor still exists, major economies are in shambles, our natural resources are on the brink of exhaustion, animals are going extinct, women safety has been compromised, corruption is as high as ever, and don’t even get me started on the number of innocent lives lost to satiate the greed of the few. We are living in bubbles of false assumptions. We concern ourselves with what is near and dear and ignore the bigger picture just to save the trouble of facing the fact that there are lost causes in this world and in our societies and that we, believe it or not, are the reason for their existence. We have numbed our minds to the unfathomable amount of bad news streaming into our lives, just to escape accountability. This is the fundamental truth about humanity; we go in denial on the tiniest pretense of accountability. But the truth exists, and deep inside our bones, we know it, even if no one likes to read depressing stuff. But inspite of all this, we are still here. We haven’t given up. For all that is wrong with the world today, there is an equal potential for good. There is goodness within us and it manifests itself in ways that are better and more scaleable. More scaleable because of better technological developments. We just have to let that transcend limitations and reach where it is required. Just don’t shut your eyes to the bad. Its an impetus for goodness to prevail.
Music, Movies, Video games
Writing songs, playing the drums
Growing up. You make such a big deal of growing up that you actually forget to hone your maturity level, Weddings, Vacations. Job-related concerns, College and the pressure of getting a degree, Being right, Finishing first, Luxury items.